As for your typing, yeah, I think Si>Se valuing, Te>Ti valuing and Ne dual seeking fits you.
Mainly because you do not see Ti as part of society and you do not see how Se creative creates a product of Ti ideology in the material world.
Then, I guess most of our conflicts is my Ti/Se valuing and your devaluing of Ti/Se, since 1) you don't engage in Ti discussion for long before you blow up always (which I attribute to your Ne dual seeking not getting the Ne input, too). 2) Then if you feel I ask for too much explaining, that's also your Ti devaluing, you do not wish to delve into Ti that much, how would you work with the Ti DS of EIE, uhh. 3) Finally, you expressed this worry to me before that I was ruining the peace. Very Ne/Si valuing of you. More details on that from the ISTj rules thread: when Slugabed asked me to not talk to her anymore, I complied fine. You were not asking me to do so and there was no need to. You were explicitly just worried about a tendency of the peace being ruined on this forum with too much aggression and I asked you if this was because of my conflict with Slugabed and you said yes. At that point my conflict already ended with Slugabed by my respecting her request to not talk to each other, you sent that PM later only.
Copypasting the other reasoning for it from that thread on Ne DS/Se devaluing where you blew up about not being able to keep clarity of thought with me:
"It is almost impossible to get an SLI to do something that is more complicated than what he is already doing. The same holds true on a mental level; SLIs admire people who are able to reduce phenomena to their essential characteristics, thus making it easier and easier to think about things.
SLIs easily lose their clarity of thought when people direct anger and negative emotions at them"
I also see this a lot in our arguments with you quitting it fast always and not just with me but with @
niffer too for example:
"Otherwise, SLIs can become uncommonly stubborn if people use too much emotion, abstract reasoning, haste, or pressure when dealing with them."
(Source:
http://socionist.blogspot.hu/2008/06...scription.html)
This is also strongly correlated with Ni/Se devaluing:
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...=1#post1192048
The one point for possible Se valuing would be that you are now able to get into conflict and maybe resolve things instead of just peculiarly (random seeming) withdrawing when you feel like it to keep Si peace and comfort for yourself. I haven't seen what you are doing now in the past, that is, standing your ground for longer instead of withdrawing. Not saying LSIs are always up for a conflict but they don't withdraw in that peculiar way. (Edit: if you just mentioned my nick but actually still keep me on ignore then this point is invalid.)
Now one last way to explain that is if you are Harmonizing in DCNH. I'm Dominant in DCNH and those two can conflict bad supposedly with Harmonizing withdrawing. Though I know two LSI-H's and they are not like this either.
And I don't see the Fe dual seeking at all so far.