Member Questionnaire 1 (squark)What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is what appeals to the senses or sentiments. I don't really know what love is.What are your most important values?
-Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
Yes.Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
-What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
-Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
Not interested in discussing health or medicine. I take care of my body, but wouldn't say I'm focused on it.What do you think of daily chores?
-Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
-What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
-Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
Alone, working on something.What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
Sometimes I'm arrogant, obstinate and cruel. Sometimes I'm dishonest with myself or others. Sometimes I'm lazy or avoidant of things I don't want to do. I hate being or feeling weak, and if I catch myself whining about something, I become disgusted. I don't like to need anything, and sometimes that means I deny wants as well.What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I'm always willing to do something, change the things I don't like, work, make things better. I don't give up easily.In what areas of your life would you like help?
I can take care of my life. All I need is friendship from anyone else.Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
-What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
Honesty is my favorite quality in any person.How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
I don't think I want a partner. I was reading this the other day https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...u-single-heart
and realized most of these things apply to me.
I can be obsessive about relationships, and I very much like sex (who doesn't) but when I really think about what I want and when I'm happiest, I realize that I like being alone and making my own decisions far too much. When I think about things like marriage, it's always with a sense of dread, a sacrifice that I might make for someone, but not something I'd choose for myself. And when my relationships have ended, regardless of how devastated or sad I might have been at the time, I eventually feel a sense of relief. I've had lots of romantic notions and ideas of how things could or would or should be with someone, but in the end, I think I like just being me the best.
-A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
-Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
-How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
-How do you behave around strangers?