Your parent's types

[Sol]

Adam Strange (LIE) - ISTP, ESTJ
aisa - ESFP, INTP
Aiss (INFP) - , ESFJ
Aleksei (ENFJ) - ISTJ, ENFJ
Alstroemeria - ISFJ, ISFP
Amber (ISTJ) - ENTJ, ISFJ
Anglas (ENTJ) - ISTJ, ISFJ
anndelise (ENFP) - ESFP, INFJ
April - INTP, ENFP
Aylen (INFP) - ENFJ INTP~, ISTJ
Azeroffs (ENTJ) - ESTJ, ENTP
Bane (ENFJ) - ENTP, ISFP
bionic (ENTJ) - , INFJ
Blaze (ENTP) - INFJ, ESTJ
BulletsAndDoves (INFP) - INTJ, ESFJ
calenwen - ESTJ, INFJ
Chae (ENFJ) - ISTP, ISFJ
chips and underwear - ISTP,
CILi - , ISFP
Codie (INFP) - , ESFJ
ConcreteButterfly - ENTJ, ESFJ
Contra (INTP) - ESTJ, INFJ
Crispy (INTP) - , ISFJ
Cuddly McFluffles (ISFJ) - ISTJ~, ESFJ
DaftPunk (ISTP) - , ISTP
darya (ENFJ) - ISTJ, ENFJ
dinki (INFP) - ISTP, ESTJ
Director Abbie (ESTJ) - ENFP, ISTP
DividedsGhost (ESFJ) - , ISFP
Eliza Thomason (ENFP) - ISTP, ISFJ
epheme - ISFP, ENFP
EyeSeeCold (INTP) - , ESFJ
Francesca Rose (INFP) - , INTP
Galen (ENFP) - ESFJ, ISFP
glam - ISTJ, ENFP
golden (ENFJ) - ESFP, INTP
Guillaine (ENFP) - INFP, ISTJ
HERO (INFP) - , ENFJ
inumbra - , ESFJ
jewels (ENFP) - INTJ, ISFP
Jenna (INFP) - , ENFJ
Joven Erudito89 (INFJ) - , INFP
JuJu (ENFJ) - ISTP, ESTP
Krig the Viking (INTJ) - , INFJ
lemontrees (ISFP) - ESTJ, ESFP
LeShay (ESFP) - ISFP~,
Logos (INTJ) - , ENFJ
lungs (ISFJ) - ISTJ, INFP
machintruc - ISFJ, ENFJ
malna (INFJ) - INTJ, ENFJ
Marie84 (INFJ) - ISTJ, ENTP
Maritsa (ENFJ) - ESFP, INTP
Martrix, The (ENFJ) - INTJ, INFP
MasterfulMischief - ESTJ, ISFJ
Mattie (ENFP) - INTP, ESFP
meatburger (ENFP) - ISTJ, ISFJ
Mediator Kam (ISFP) - , ESFJ
mikemex (ENFP) - INTJ, ENFJ
NorthernRose - INFJ, ESTP
Nowisthetime (ISFP) - , ISFJ
meals (ISTP) - , ISFJ
Morcheeba (ENFJ) - , ESTP
Myst (ISTJ) - LIE, ESI
Narc (ENTJ) - INTP, ISFJ
NewBorn STAR (ESTJ) - ISFJ, ISFJ
octo (INFP) - INTJ, ESFJ
Persephone - ESTP, ESTJ
Pink (INFP) - ENTJ, ESTJ
PistolShrimp (INFP) - ESTP, ISFP
Pookie (INFP) - ISTJ, INFJ
Radio - ESFJ, ENFP
Raver (ENFP) - , ESFJ
redbaron - ISFP, INFJ
ryoka14 - ISFP,
Saberstorm (INTJ) - ENFP, INFP
Saoshyant (INTP) - , ENFJ
sindri (INFP) - INTJ, ISFP
SisOfNight (INFP) - ESTJ, ESFJ
Slacker (ENFP) - ENFJ, ENTJ
Sol (ESTJ) - ISTJ, ESFJ
Starfall (INFP) - INFP, ENFP
strangeling - ESTJ, ISFP
Subteigh (INFJ) - ISTJ, ISFJ
suedehead - , ISFP
Supremacist (ISTP) - INFJ, ENFJ
Suz (ESFJ) - , ISFP
SyrupDeGem - INFP ENTP~,
thehotelambush (INTJ) - ISTJ, ENTJ
Typhon (ENFJ) - INTP, INFJ
unefille (INFJ) - ISTJ, ESFJ
Warlord - ESTP, ENFP
willekeurig - ISTJ, ENFJ
woofwoofl (ESFP) - , ESFJ
Wynch (ENTP) - ESTJ, INTP
xerx (ENTP) - ISTJ, ENFJ
yellow82 (ESFJ) - , INTP
Zed (INTJ) - , INFJ
1981slater (ENTP) - ISTJ, ENFJ
717495 - , ISFJ

note:
in '()' is generally the type a member thinks as own
father, mother
~ - adoption parent
LII=INTJ

used:
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...-father-s-type
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...-mother-s-type
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...our-Parents-in
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...n-your-parents
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...-mother-s-type
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...-Relationships
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...family-members

types of brothers/sisters:
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...er(s)-sister(s)

[Beautiful sky]

My dad is SEE (was)

And, how do you trust that I've typed them correctly and that I haven't typed myself or MY mom hasn't typed me correctly?

[Sol]

how do you trust that I've typed them correctly

I don't trust and only have writen what people said.

You forgot my favorite LSE leckysupport

I did not see data about his parents types.

[Beautiful sky]

You forgot my favorite LSE @leckysupport

[Contra]

Eh, if I said ENFp at the time for my mom, I was wrong. She is much more likely to be INFj.

[Beautiful sky]

My mother types me EII. You should trust her. She's only known me for 37 years and she has only known her other kids for a bit shorter than that. Also my dad has never been typed by anyone here. He's SEE

[Beautiful sky]

Fuck off or take me off of this list.

[Sol]

Fuck off or take me off of this list.

Now you'll stay there with your real type forever.

Also thanks, for showing here the native behavior fitting to the said type and contradicting to what you say about yourself. This information is useful.

[Beautiful sky]

Now you'll stay there with your real type forever.

Good And here's my real typing of you forever

@Sol SLE forever.

[Pookie]

LSI and EII

[maniac]

EII dad xSE mom

[ashlesha]

Now it's (ISFJ) - INFP, ISTJ

Edit: lol nvm I got sols join date mixed up with the post date hahahah

[Beautiful sky]

Now it's (ISFJ) - INFP, ISTJ

ask again in another 8 years who knows what will happen !?!

(holy shit it's been 8 years)

I have no defenses. I wish that I were more like you, lungs.

[ashlesha]

I have no defenses. I wish that I were more like you, lungs.

I'm sorry I don't understand.

[blank]

ILE and SEI

[Persephone]

My mother self types LSE (she knows about socionics) and we both type my father SLE. The only other possible type for him would be LSI.
My father's parents LSI and IEI. My mother's parents EIE and LSI.

[golden]

Slightly creepy original post, but I still type my father ESFp, and my mother INTp. As a couple they were a great example of how being duals is no magic pill, but you could still see the duality at work.

[Sol]

being duals is no magic pill, but you could still see the duality at work

Duality is a kind of magic as has strong relation to unconscious. But there are also other things affecting relations besides types.

[golden]

Duality is a kind of magic as has strong relation to unconscious. But there are also other things affecting relations besides types.

"Magic pill" means that duality is not always enough in and of itself. That means we agreed. So why correct me? I get very tired of your pedantic communication style.

[Beautiful sky]

"Magic pill" means that duality is not always enough in and of itself. That means we agreed. So why correct me? I get very tired of your pedantic communication style.

Because he wants to be seen as competent and authoritarian/director

I don't get tired of it but he hates me and types me EIE.

[Sol]

"Magic pill" means that duality is not always enough

It's never enough.
Unfortunally Socionics was popularized by non-pscyhologists, but by journalists, esoterism fans etc. People did not read Jung's original source, while should. So they got information in the style of "yellow press" with simplification and exaggeration. In the style which validly reminded you popular esoteric stuff.

So why correct me?

Your statement was partly incorrect.

I get very tired of your pedantic communication style.

Such perception is common for Fe types of Te ones. While I don't like when people refuse evident things, what is common for Fe.

[golden]

Such perception is common for Fe types of Te ones. While I don't like when people refuse evident things, what is common for Fe.

1. It was a foregone conclusion that you'd respond by saying this is about Te and Fe. So there was no need for you to point that out. But if we want to play the Socionics game, I suppose your Ni problems make it impossible for you to see why it's not necessary for you to nominate yourself Mr. Instructor. Maybe you literally can't ascertain what other people can see coming and think you have to point everything out to them.

2. You have an especially severe case of know-it-all-itis. I was married to a Te-lead who is actually a professional pedant, and even he wasn't this bad. Come on, dude. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that cultural and linguistic barriers, including my own prejudices, may exacerbate the problem here.

Since I also know you always want to have the last word, go for it. This is boring.

[Eliza Thomason]

I am ENFp - Mom ISFj, Dad ISTp They were very stable and happy. Rarely ever argued, and conferred with each other on everything, and truly missed each other when they were apart (which was rare).

[Minde]

My mom seems Delta ST to me. Possibly ESTj. My dad is some sort of intuitive. The easiest category for him is Delta NF. One test put him as ENTj. This is based largely on their interactions with each other.

[Sol]

My mom seems Delta ST to me. Possibly ESTj.

I put sure concrete opinions and close to them. You may give tests to your parents and to think more about their types to get sure opinion. There is no time limit.

[Minde]

I put sure concrete opinions and close to them. You may give tests to your parents and to think more about their types to get sure opinion.

I did give them tests. Mom came out as LSE. Dad had variety. He has "strong" Ni and likes that Te. What are tests you think are good (enough)? Tests seem like only one option in a toolbox of typing resources.

Why do you need sure, concrete opinions?

There is no time limit.

Is it wrong I found this funny? I wasn't worried about time limits. But if I was, that'd be reassuring, yes, thank you.

[Sol]

What are tests you think are good (enough)?

I don't know about today English tests. Many years ago when I tortuted people near me by tests, including parents, I used dichotomy Gulenko's test with 72 questions - that was not bad and short. I printed questions, gave them to people, and then counted the answers. I don't know was it translated or not. Not many text, but the level of my English is below literary, so without "free talking" in English bi-lingual man the result will be similar to google's translator, what is not good to psychology tests. it's ok only for technical stuff. Tests help, give partly correct type, then you check close types and think what fit better.

Why do you need sure, concrete opinions?

Sure opinion means higher possibility it's correct. Concrete type - because such information is more interesting.

Is it wrong I found this funny?

The wrong thing was not to say sure opinion about concrete types, as did others. You need time to get those opinions. While you did not used it and said partly and unsure opinion. If you get fun, - it's good Better than to be depressed, at least.

[Minde]

I don't know about today English tests. Many years ago when I tortuted people near me by tests, including parents, I used dichotomy Gulenko's test with 72 questions - that was not bad and short. I printed questions, gave them to people, and then counted the answers. I don't know was it translated or not. Not many text, but the level of my English is below literary, so without "free talking" in English bi-lingual man the result will be similar to google's translator, what is not good to psychology tests. it's ok only for technical stuff. Tests help, give partly correct type, then you check close types and think what fit better.

Ok.

Sure opinion means higher possibility it's correct.

I find your opinion here questionable. But, ok. It is your thread.

Concrete type - because such information is more interesting.

Ok.

The wrong thing was not to say sure opinion about concrete types, as did others.

There was a distinct lack of instructions here. I could do what everyone else is doing, I suppose. But why default to that? <-- rhetorical question, no need to answer if you don't want to, though an answer could be interesting I suppose

You need time to get those opinions. While you did not used it and said partly and unsure opinion.

I have had time (see my forum join date). It just hasn't been a high priority to decide what their types are. I find it more useful to determine friends' types.

If you get fun, - it's good Better than to be depressed, at least.

Indeed. Depression is different from not having fun, though. But, anyway, yes, laughter is good for the soul. Find the joy in life.



Also, I see no mention of VI or video typing in this thread. I am amazed and know not what to say.

[Beautiful sky]

@Minde sol just wants to be extra difficult today

Maybe it's a test.

[Adam Strange]

@Sol, you can add "Adam Strange (LIE), LSE mother, SLI father" to your list.

[KrishnaRen]

My dad is ESE 2w3 so/sx and my mom is ESI 8w9 sp/so

[Hays]

Only very recently have I interacted with my birth father with this being mostly online and through 2 briefs trips to one another's home cities in different states.
He was happy enough to do a Socionics test and his result was ENFj though after meeting him last time I highly doubt this is his actual type, it is more a case that he is in need of high Fe from another.

My stepfather was a lovely man who I am quite sure was ISFp.

My mother's type was suggested by some on the forum as ENFj or INFp. She resides in another country in a very rural part of the land and I rarely get the chance to see her with the previous visit being around 15 years ago. I also haven't seen much of her since I was around the age of 16 so I am not locking in a type for her as yet.

As for myself yes SEE (ESFp) is currently written under my avatar but will change as it is just there currently as a gimmick. Expect it to regularly change as I kind of give up with what my actual type is, though it is likely to include an N with an I over E. My Se is a weak function. Those who know me place it in 4th, 5th or 3rd place.

*Update

Mother in another country - EXFP with ENFp more likely, Father in another state with only recent relations - ESTp and stepfather passed away is perhaps - ISTp.

[Olimpia]

Haven't been added yet, either.

My father is LSE (ESTJ), my mother is ESE (ESFJ).

[Diana]

Mother - ESE
Father - LSE
Me - SLI

[falsehope]

I am fron conflicting family:

Father: SLE
Mother: EII
Sister: ESI
Me: ILE

Conflict is the main theme in my family. Parents were showing up to the kids how the conflict works so we have been well trained. Also, everyone is from different quadra.

[Eliza Thomason]

I am fron conflicting family:

Father: SLE
Mother: EII
Sister: ESI
Me: ILE

Conflict is the main theme in my family. Parents were showing up to the kids how the conflict works so we have been well trained. Also, everyone is from different quadra.

My very close friend is EII and married (and as-if married) a long time to SLE. And I have been her principle confident through years of rocky times with that. He has sometimes behaved badly and she sure lets him know! Mild-mannered as she is, she can holler when he has offended (often in the way he talks to her, taking her for granted and it comes out in a statement or action and wow she will blow up and not let this go). It's been a rocky road, but clearly they both have always wanted stay together and be an intact family/couple, and they have. They learned to avoid conflict as much as possible, and part of it is the strong boundaries they make for themselves and time separate and firm routines and expectations of each other. Also, annual family vacations - they do vacations and meals out well. The last few years have had surprisingly few conflicts. One help is she just started a professional career that she studied much for over a couple years, and he is relieved to have another income and gives her a bit more space and respect, it seems.

I have to say I am proud that even though I was her confidant and faithful sympathetic listener (because people truly NEED that validating listening) all those years, I never once put him down (only agreed his actions/words were at times atrocious) and never suggested in anyway he was not a worthy husband. Between that and always praying for them as a couple, I feel a sense of having a stake in their being together still. Small, but important to me.

My first marriage (I met her during this) I was Benefactee, and there certainly is inequality in that relation. So her marriage was so different from mine, in that even though there were terrible fights, I admired that she could be stable and confident enough to say her mind, where as I was always hesitant, as putting my best and most thoughtful efforts to be heard never seemed to have impact anyway (akin to throwing pearls to swine).

Also I wanted to say that it's interesting that your parents were "showing up to the kids how the conflict works so we have been well trained". So interesting! My parents so rarely conflicted. But I kept explanations of conflict with my husband away from my son. Because he was a kid, and needed to be one. Then after the divorce (he was 8) I went with the advice(there was much advice written and much of it conflicting) that I should not expose him to my feelings/reactions/bad things about his father, that my son would eventually figure out for himself how his dad actually is, and for now he just needed a dad in his life. I think that was right but it was not easy bec. his Dad had no qualms about putting me down, it seems, I don't know how often but I would get a whiff of that from time to time, and it seemed very unjust.

My EII friend, however, THOROUGHLY explained to her kids why she was angry - because their dad was a LIAR, etc. She felt it important they know what was happening in their world, and that they also know how to resolve conflict. I think it worked (they are teens now).

Very interesting that you are ALL from a different Quadra! You have then all learned good lessons in getting along with all types of people! That adds a certain fairness, as no one has a quadra-refuge person. My growing up seemed fairly easy. My parents stayed together, and two of my brothers and my Dad and I were all Delta (LSE, SLI,, and me IEE and my Dad SLI). It was a Delta-majority family! Makes me especially loyal to Delta-values, I think. My Mom was ESI* and my youngest brother LSI. As three of us are bunched close in age and LSI brother came along 4 years later, besides being the odd-Beta, it's possible he felt odd-one-out sometimes (not that I noticed it growing up, excepting the time my SLI brother was pretty unkind, IMO, about not wanting him tagging along). But he was the only one nursed, so he got that. (I take that back; my oldest brother was nursed). And he was blessed with a EIE wife. Truly blessed in that way).

None of you, I believe, are the easy-crossover person of your Quadra. In Alpha, I think it's ESFj. Not totally sure of the others (though in Delta i's ENFp)...

[para]

Mother - XII
Father - XLE

[Shytan]

My dad's SLI and my mom's IEE.

[Chae]

Mom - ESI-Se 1w2 63 SP/SX
Dad - SLI-Si 6w7 93 SP/SO

Also part of the family:

Brother - LSE-Te 8 47 SX/SP
Grandma - SEI-Si 7w6 49 SO/SP




Please somebody send help

I'm the only intuitive type and SP last

[maniac]

Mom - ESI-Se 1w2 63 SP/SX
Dad - SLI-Si 6w7 93 SP/SO

Also part of the family:

Brother - LSE-Te 8 47 SX/SP
Grandma - SEI-Si 7w6 49 SO/SP




Please somebody send help

I'm the only intuitive type and SP last

Im the only social last + only one with 4 in tritype haha i feel you

My sister has literally told me I'm the black sheep - tell me something I don't know huh


dont know socionics-wise but:

mom: sp/so 2w1 261/268
dad: sp/so 9w1 962
sister: so/sx 6w7 639

grandma: so/sx 1w2
grandpa: so/sp something

cousin 1: sp/so 6w7
cousin 2: so/sx 7w6