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    For those who would like to gossip amongst yourselves re. my type, here's your place to do it. Feel free to make judgements on my character and type based on whatever little information you'd like. You can also make snide remarks and other such things, just keep it out of other people's threads. Have fun!

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    Your avatar is stupid.

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    @Myst, @niffer, @Chae, @Cassandra

    Come on, here you go. Out of the shadows now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    @Myst, @niffer, @Chae, @Cassandra

    Come on, here you go. Out of the shadows now.
    Shadows? I already told you my opinions either in PM or in public. Maybe going in the shadows is you, I recall you said you complained to someone about how you were not going to talk to me and then passive-aggressively liking someone's post against me.

    But if you want me to sum up the issue again, well, that last attempt of yours to bullshit about me by accusing me of indecency of putting PMs in public when I didn't actually do so was the most uncalled-for nastiness. And you are an idiot if you seriously think that me not agreeing with you means I cannot understand anything at all and if you think using the phrasing "I like" means I go by feelings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    Shadows? I already told you my opinions either in PM or in public. Maybe going in the shadows is you, I recall you said you complained to someone about how you were not going to talk to me and then passive-aggressively liking someone's post against me.

    But if you want me to sum up the issue again, well, that last attempt of yours to bullshit about me by accusing me of indecency of putting PMs in public when I didn't actually do so was the most uncalled-for nastiness. And you are an idiot if you seriously think that me not agreeing with you means I cannot understand anything at all and if you think using the phrasing "I like" means I go by feelings.
    Yeah, this is really passive-aggressive, rude, shady behaviour @squark . I'm tempted to like you again because of making this thread, but then I'm just trying not to. It's one thing to me to be retarded towards me since I want to avoid being bitter (even coming by to shit in my Ask an SLE Woman thread about me not being SLE -- actually kind of ironic in that light that you're starting this thread so other people's threads don't get shat in isn't it, hmm? Since you have no problem with doing it yourself towards others anyway), but then being an ass to Myst too was the straw that broke the camel's back in my impression of you.

    Go cry about other people not understanding you and your type no matter how much you do, idk. You should just stop being so haughty and shitty and take your head out of your ass IMO. Maybe it's not others who don't understand things, but you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by niffer View Post
    I'm tempted to like you again because of making this thread, but then I'm just trying not to.
    Heh this, I could've said this sentence myself wrt liking how there could be confronting of the issues instead of hiding. (Agree with the rest too, tho')

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    Shadows? I already told you my opinions either in PM or in public. Maybe going in the shadows is you, I recall you said you complained to someone about how you were not going to talk to me and then passive-aggressively liking someone's post against me.

    But if you want me to sum up the issue again, well, that last attempt of yours to bullshit about me by accusing me of indecency of putting PMs in public when I didn't actually do so was the most uncalled-for nastiness. And you are an idiot if you seriously think that me not agreeing with you means I cannot understand anything at all and if you think using the phrasing "I like" means I go by feelings.
    I didn't complain to someone that I wasn't going to talk to you. Someone whose opinion I respect told me NOT to respond to you, and to put you on ignore, because he said if I responded I wouldn't be able to help but be antagonistic, bc he knows how I say things, and exactly what was going to happen, and how other people would join in. He was right, on all of it. My non-responses to things you've said wasn't me avoiding you, or avoiding conflict. It was because he knew how it would turn out and I was trying to take his advice for a change as he tends to be right on these things. I couldn't hold back from opening my mouth though so here we are.

    Talking about what anyone has said in a PM, about the subject matter regardless of whether it is a direct quote or not is not okay, and you should know that, and not pretend like it's okay.

    And obviously complaining about how you don't understand anything has nothing to do with agreement or disagreement, but wait, no, sorry, that wouldn't be obvious to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    I didn't complain to someone that I wasn't going to talk to you. Someone whose opinion I respect told me NOT to respond to you, and to put you on ignore, because he said if I responded I wouldn't be able to help but be antagonistic, bc he knows how I say things, and exactly what was going to happen, and how other people would join in. He was right, on all of it. My non-responses to things you've said wasn't me avoiding you, or avoiding conflict. It was because he knew how it would turn out and I was trying to take his advice for a change as he tends to be right on these things. I couldn't hold back from opening my mouth though so here we are.
    You couldn't hold back from opening your mouth after you formed those incredible biased ideas on me while you yourself admitted you have no idea why you are bothered by stuff. Figure out what it is exactly that you are bothered by so much. It's your own problem, not me. Figure it out instead of blowing up like that.


    Talking about what anyone has said in a PM, about the subject matter regardless of whether it is a direct quote or not is not okay, and you should know that, and not pretend like it's okay.
    You talked about it first but you distorted the facts so I corrected you on that. Are you really trying to get away with your distorting the facts to the point of lying about what actually happened? You think that's okay? I can't believe my eyes.


    And obviously complaining about how you don't understand anything has nothing to do with agreement or disagreement, but wait, no, sorry, that wouldn't be obvious to you, would it. That's kind of the point.
    How is it "obvious" that it has nothing to do with disagreement? Prove it. Good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    How is it "obvious" that it has nothing to do with disagreement? Prove it. Good luck.
    LOL. Because you ask people a zillion questions that are completely unnecessary if you had just read their post to begin with. Things that are self-explanatory to everyone else you need detailed explanations of to even begin to understand. That's what I was referring to when I said you don't understand anything. Your denseness.

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    Stated my case, xSI
    subtype is clear

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    I just find it possible you are not LSI, and perhaps not even an S type.

    But I don't have any strong opinion on your type (so far).
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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    For those who would like to gossip amongst yourselves re. my type, here's your place to do it. Feel free to make judgements on my character and type based on whatever little information you'd like. You can also make snide remarks and other such things, just keep it out of other people's threads. Have fun!
    As for your typing, yeah, I think Si>Se valuing, Te>Ti valuing and Ne dual seeking fits you.


    Mainly because you do not see Ti as part of society and you do not see how Se creative creates a product of Ti ideology in the material world.


    Then, I guess most of our conflicts is my Ti/Se valuing and your devaluing of Ti/Se, since 1) you don't engage in Ti discussion for long before you blow up always (which I attribute to your Ne dual seeking not getting the Ne input, too). 2) Then if you feel I ask for too much explaining, that's also your Ti devaluing, you do not wish to delve into Ti that much, how would you work with the Ti DS of EIE, uhh. 3) Finally, you expressed this worry to me before that I was ruining the peace. Very Ne/Si valuing of you. More details on that from the ISTj rules thread: when Slugabed asked me to not talk to her anymore, I complied fine. You were not asking me to do so and there was no need to. You were explicitly just worried about a tendency of the peace being ruined on this forum with too much aggression and I asked you if this was because of my conflict with Slugabed and you said yes. At that point my conflict already ended with Slugabed by my respecting her request to not talk to each other, you sent that PM later only.


    Copypasting the other reasoning for it from that thread on Ne DS/Se devaluing where you blew up about not being able to keep clarity of thought with me:

    "It is almost impossible to get an SLI to do something that is more complicated than what he is already doing. The same holds true on a mental level; SLIs admire people who are able to reduce phenomena to their essential characteristics, thus making it easier and easier to think about things.

    SLIs easily lose their clarity of thought when people direct anger and negative emotions at them"


    I also see this a lot in our arguments with you quitting it fast always and not just with me but with @niffer too for example: "Otherwise, SLIs can become uncommonly stubborn if people use too much emotion, abstract reasoning, haste, or pressure when dealing with them."

    (Source: http://socionist.blogspot.hu/2008/06...scription.html)

    This is also strongly correlated with Ni/Se devaluing: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...=1#post1192048


    The one point for possible Se valuing would be that you are now able to get into conflict and maybe resolve things instead of just peculiarly (random seeming) withdrawing when you feel like it to keep Si peace and comfort for yourself. I haven't seen what you are doing now in the past, that is, standing your ground for longer instead of withdrawing. Not saying LSIs are always up for a conflict but they don't withdraw in that peculiar way. (Edit: if you just mentioned my nick but actually still keep me on ignore then this point is invalid.)

    Now one last way to explain that is if you are Harmonizing in DCNH. I'm Dominant in DCNH and those two can conflict bad supposedly with Harmonizing withdrawing. Though I know two LSI-H's and they are not like this either.


    And I don't see the Fe dual seeking at all so far.
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    Don't listen to them, Squark.

    They're all mistyped.

    Also, they have boobs. Don't trust boobs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeremy8419 View Post
    Don't listen to them, Squark.

    They're all mistyped.

    Also, they have boobs. Don't trust boobs.
    Activity relations?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    Activity relations?
    Newp.

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    Hey, squark.

    Reductionist or Non-Reductionist?

    Absolutist or Skeptic?

    Utilitarianism or Deontology?

    No cheating!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeremy8419 View Post
    Newp.

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    Hey, squark.

    Reductionist or Non-Reductionist?

    Absolutist or Skeptic?

    Utilitarianism or Deontology?

    No cheating!

    Non-reductionist
    Absolutism
    Deontology

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    As for your typing, yeah, I think Si>Se valuing, Te>Ti valuing and Ne dual seeking fits you.


    Mainly because you do not see Ti as part of society and you do not see how Se creative creates a product of Ti ideology in the material world.


    Then, I guess most of our conflicts is my Ti/Se valuing and your devaluing of Ti/Se, since 1) you don't engage in Ti discussion for long before you blow up always (which I attribute to your Ne dual seeking not getting the Ne input, too). 2) Then if you feel I ask for too much explaining, that's also your Ti devaluing, you do not wish to delve into Ti that much, how would you work with the Ti DS of EIE, uhh. 3) Finally, you expressed this worry to me before that I was ruining the peace. Very Ne/Si valuing of you. More details on that from the ISTj rules thread: when Slugabed asked me to not talk to her anymore, I complied fine. You were not asking me to do so and there was no need to. You were explicitly just worried about a tendency of the peace being ruined on this forum with too much aggression and I asked you if this was because of my conflict with Slugabed and you said yes. At that point my conflict already ended with Slugabed by my respecting her request to not talk to each other, you sent that PM later only.


    Copypasting the other reasoning for it from that thread on Ne DS/Se devaluing where you blew up about not being able to keep clarity of thought with me:

    "It is almost impossible to get an SLI to do something that is more complicated than what he is already doing. The same holds true on a mental level; SLIs admire people who are able to reduce phenomena to their essential characteristics, thus making it easier and easier to think about things.

    SLIs easily lose their clarity of thought when people direct anger and negative emotions at them"


    I also see this a lot in our arguments with you quitting it fast always and not just with me but with @niffer too for example: "Otherwise, SLIs can become uncommonly stubborn if people use too much emotion, abstract reasoning, haste, or pressure when dealing with them."

    (Source: http://socionist.blogspot.hu/2008/06...scription.html)

    This is also strongly correlated with Ni/Se devaluing: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...=1#post1192048


    The one point for possible Se valuing would be that you are now able to get into conflict and maybe resolve things instead of just peculiarly (random seeming) withdrawing when you feel like it to keep Si peace and comfort for yourself. I haven't seen what you are doing now in the past, that is, standing your ground for longer instead of withdrawing. Not saying LSIs are always up for a conflict but they don't withdraw in that peculiar way. (Edit: if you just mentioned my nick but actually still keep me on ignore then this point is invalid.)

    Now one last way to explain that is if you are Harmonizing in DCNH. I'm Dominant in DCNH and those two can conflict bad supposedly with Harmonizing withdrawing. Though I know two LSI-H's and they are not like this either.


    And I don't see the Fe dual seeking at all so far.
    I'm sincerely sorry for anyone who takes your views seriously. Ti = explaining, Se = bullying, Si = peace. I've lost track of how many false equivalences you've created. The bullshit people come up with to justify their own typings :/
    Hey, feel free to PM me with any opinions about my type

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slade View Post
    I'm sincerely sorry for anyone who takes your views seriously. Ti = explaining, Se = bullying, Si = peace. I've lost track of how many false equivalences you've created. The bullshit people come up with to justify their own typings :/
    Strawman. This isn't at all what I was saying... The bullshit you come up with to justify your views about me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    Strawman. This isn't at all what I was saying... The bullshit you come up with to justify your views about me.
    Yes it was. 'That isn't what I was saying' isn't an argument. You said ' Then if you feel I ask for too much explaining, that's also your Ti devaluing, you do not wish to delve into Ti that much.' What does Ti have to do with explaining for you to use it as a rationale to de-value Ti? Is your conception of LSI one that constantly goes around explaining things? If it is, how does that reconcile with you as someone who hardly ever explains things, but instead seeks to argue using personal experiences, anecdotes, and descriptions? Do you see what you've written as examples of logic?

    Cut the pie any way you want, it still leads away from Ti ego.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slade View Post
    Yes it was. 'That isn't what I was saying' isn't an argument. You said ' Then if you feel I ask for too much explaining, that's also your Ti devaluing, you do not wish to delve into Ti that much.' What does Ti have to do with explaining for you to use it as a rationale to de-value Ti? Is your conception of LSI one that constantly goes around explaining things? If it is, how does that reconcile with you as someone who hardly ever explains things, but instead seeks to argue using personal experiences, anecdotes, and descriptions? Do you see what you've written as examples of logic?
    Heh, if you had read the ISTj rules thread more closely, you would see quite a bit more how I think about the type and you wouldn't have had to ask about this here. And no, another strawman there about "LSI constantly going around explaining"...

    Regardless of that, I'm asked to explain things, I will gladly do so. You asked so I'm answering: if she regularly does not want to continue discussions that's full of the Ti information element (from me and from niffer too) then that's a pretty good basis for seeing her as devaluing Ti.


    Cut the pie any way you want, it still leads away from Ti ego.
    Discuss your opinion on my type in my type thread. I won't ask you again - I will ignore any further lines on this instead unless you take it to that thread. (Though that's also pointless but I'm ok with explaining to you more if you had genuine curiosity. Though my guess is that you don't.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slade View Post
    I'm sincerely sorry for anyone who takes your views seriously. Ti = explaining, Se = bullying, Si = peace. I've lost track of how many false equivalences you've created. The bullshit people come up with to justify their own typings :/
    Though I generally say that socionics = lunacy, I'm not sure how else you think things like Ti / Se can be identified in people except by arbitrarily associating them with things like Myst is doing - "explaining", "bullying", etc.. That's just the insanity of socionics.

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    I do think you are LSI. Although, you are kind of full of yourself.

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    OK, for the topic of this thread (typing squark):

    http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...naire-(squark)
    http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...naire-(squark)

    These show Fi valuing imo. SLI>ESI, don't see other options.


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    Considered ESI but dunno about that.

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    Except I'm not lying. And we both know it. And I'm not going to entertain you continuing to try to twist the truth. (or to post PMs - I mean really, what the hell?)

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    Except I'm not lying. And we both know it. And I'm not going to entertain you continuing to try to twist the truth.
    Do not dare to put that sentence into my mouth again about how I "know" it. Also do not dare to claim (lie) that I'm the one twisting the truth. You know perfectly well that I can post screenshots of my PM with your parts cropped out to show how your claim is not true.

    Actually, I'm posting this bit now because I hate how you think you can get away with lying. Nope you cannot. So here we go:

    pm02.png

    So your PM was not about telling me to back off Slugabed since I had to ask you if your message was even to do with Slugabed (since you mentioned nothing about her). Remember, your claim in the ISTj rules thread was: "I told you to back off of Slugabed because she asked you to and you couldn't see how your continued pressure on her was being a jerk."

    This is what is not true, but a distortion of facts towards making me appear in a negative light just because of your irrational dislike towards me, biasing your view.

    Your original PM was actually pretty nice instead and we got along alright after discussing your concern about the forum in a bit more detail.

    I'm a bit tired of trying to figure out what set off this irrational dislike of yours towards me after that, I was MIA on this forum for 2 months, I was explicitly defending you in the Ti PoLR thread just before that (when someone questioned your typing), we talked about that thread too in PM afterwards, and then I went MIA a few days later and I come back basically on the very first (or second) day to this passive-aggressive reaction from you.

    Yeah way too baffling and irrational to me. I have better ways to spend my time with than figuring out your reactions with this. Again, I don't really see this as Ti from you, sorry but yeah no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    Do not dare to put that sentence into my mouth again about how I "know" it. Also do not dare to claim (lie) that I'm the one twisting the truth. You know perfectly well that I can post screenshots of my PM with your parts cropped out to show how your claim is not true.

    Actually, I'm posting this bit now because I hate how you think you can get away with lying. Nope you cannot. So here we go:

    pm02.png

    So your PM was not about telling me to back off Slugabed since I had to ask you if your message was even to do with Slugabed (since you mentioned nothing about her). Remember, your claim in the ISTj rules thread was: "I told you to back off of Slugabed because she asked you to and you couldn't see how your continued pressure on her was being a jerk."

    This is what is not true, but a distortion of facts towards making me appear in a negative light just because of your irrational dislike towards me, biasing your view.

    Your original PM was actually pretty nice instead and we got along alright after discussing your concern about the forum in a bit more detail.

    I'm a bit tired of trying to figure out what set off this irrational dislike of yours towards me after that, I was MIA on this forum for 2 months, I was explicitly defending you in the Ti PoLR thread just before that (when someone questioned your typing), we talked about that thread too in PM afterwards, and then I went MIA a few days later and I come back basically on the very first (or second) day to this passive-aggressive reaction from you.

    Yeah way too baffling and irrational to me. I have better ways to spend my time with than figuring out your reactions with this. Again, I don't really see this as Ti from you, sorry but yeah no.
    So you are just going to ignore my post, aka, anything that points out your incoherency? What does any of this have to do with Ti?
    Hey, feel free to PM me with any opinions about my type

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    Does your 365 day man period never end, @Slade ?

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    @Myst Knock it off. I was trying to protect multiple people because you're a bully, and you badger people. I did not reveal their names to you, you guessed one person who I saw you bullying and I didn't tell you the other people. I'm not going to now, and you need to stop this. Stop calling me a liar, and stop threatening to post PMs that were only written to protect other people.

    Edit: and the person you mentioned never asked for me to intervene, she was just one of the many you bullied and I noticed and decided to say something.
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    LSI and superficially similar to Myst. That's just my onion. My unsubstantiated, unlayered onion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    @Myst Knock it off. I was trying to protect multiple people because you're a bully, and you badger people. I did not reveal their names to you, you guessed one person who I saw you bullying and I didn't tell you the other people. I'm not going to now, and you need to stop this. Stop calling me a liar, and stop threatening to post PMs that were only written to protect other people.
    I wasn't bullying anyone. You need to stop all this bs.

    And, I think I've proven above that you lied and/or distorted stuff.

    (At the minimum you remembered stuff wrong, your memory distorted by your bias towards me, and so you never bothered to check. The evasiveness from you with it wasn't cool at all.)


    Quote Originally Posted by Alioth View Post
    LSI and superficially similar to Myst. That's just my onion. My unsubstantiated, unlayered onion.
    Maybe this here is Se creative yeah, and she explained how she withdrew before because of receiving advice on to do so, so I can consider ESI actually for her. I think that others considered ESI for her before anyway.


    Quote Originally Posted by Slade View Post
    So you are just going to ignore my post, aka, anything that points out your incoherency? What does any of this have to do with Ti?
    Wow your impatience O_o

    (See my reply above.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    I wasn't bullying anyone. You need to stop all this bs.
    You bully people all the time. You badger them with questions even when it's very clear that they don't want you to, and even when they ask you to stop. This is what you do. All the time. None of this is bs, and you know I'm not lying.
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    The reason my attack on you when you returned seemed to come out of nowhere was because I did my best to ignore you when you were here before. It was a relief when you left, so your return with your disinformation was very frustrating to me. The problem comes probably from my expectations. Someone says they are Ti lead, comments in almost every post how logical and Ti they are, and I expect them to actually fulfill this. I expect that they will be able to do what I do, and take a volume of information and put it together and draw their own conclusions from it. I don't expect them to need hand-holding, and have to ask question after question after question that could have already been derived from the original statement had they actually used Ti. And that's the part that's the most frustrating for me, that you just really don't understand things, and it takes you so long and so much effort and you miss so much. And then you think all of this is Ti: having people lead you to answers, demanding answers from people, demanding that they explain things to you that you should have been able to figure out yourself while you interject how this thing or that thing relates to you as an LSI . . . it just gets to be a bit much.

    Anyway, I guess I shouldn't expect much from people, and probably shouldn't take them at their word. Someone saying that they are Ti, and how they love to "go deep into Ti" really doesn't mean anything. Their actions will show who they really are. And yes, you're a bully. And no, you don't understand much. But, I don't think you're actually malicious or anything. I think you're trying, and I probably shouldn't hold things against you that you probably can't help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    Anyway, I guess I shouldn't expect much from people, and probably shouldn't take them at their word. Someone saying that they are Ti, and how they love to "go deep into Ti" really doesn't mean anything. Their actions will show who they really are. And yes, you're a bully. And no, you don't understand much. But, I don't think you're actually malicious or anything. I think you're trying, and I probably shouldn't hold things against you that you probably can't help.
    christ, your passive-aggressive insincerity. i mean, are you on your period too?

    here i have something for you, courtesy of the unwearable fashion inspo thread, extra wide. you can stuff one end's half up yours and @Slade can use the other end, how romantic:

    Quote Originally Posted by Chae View Post
    jesus you're transparent. "their actions will show who they really are" -- indeed.

    you two are terrible people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    You bully people all the time. You badger them with questions even when it's very clear that they don't want you to, and even when they ask you to stop. This is what you do. All the time. None of this is bs, and you know I'm not lying.
    This is bs again, I'm sorry. If they ask me to stop asking or stop whatever else, I stop. Ask Slugabed for example, I never bothered her after she asked me.

    I'm honestly baffled as to how you can let your view be distorted so much by frustration or whatever other emotional reactions you got going on.


    The reason my attack on you when you returned seemed to come out of nowhere was because I did my best to ignore you when you were here before. It was a relief when you left, so your return with your disinformation was very frustrating to me. The problem comes probably from my expectations. Someone says they are Ti lead, comments in almost every post how logical and Ti they are, and I expect them to actually fulfill this. I expect that they will be able to do what I do, and take a volume of information and put it together and draw their own conclusions from it. I don't expect them to need hand-holding, and have to ask question after question after question that could have already been derived from the original statement had they actually used Ti. And that's the part that's the most frustrating for me, that you just really don't understand things, and it takes you so long and so much effort and you miss so much. And then you think all of this is Ti: having people lead you to answers, demanding answers from people, demanding that they explain things to you that you should have been able to figure out yourself while you interject how this thing or that thing relates to you as an LSI . . . it just gets to be a bit much.
    Oh no, more distortions. I definitely don't run around posting in "almost every post" about how "logical and Ti" I am.

    And yes, I've drawn a lot of conclusions of my own from a lot of stuff. I've posted on the forum about these conclusions too but you don't notice those.

    No, for you it's far more comfortable to stick to your biased little pov on what I do. Have you ever heard of cognitive dissonance?

    You are a prime example of that here. It's sad really. But not my problem tbh, I don't care what you personally think as long as you don't go around accusing me of bs.


    Anyway, I guess I shouldn't expect much from people, and probably shouldn't take them at their word. Someone saying that they are Ti, and how they love to "go deep into Ti" really doesn't mean anything. Their actions will show who they really are. And yes, you're a bully. And no, you don't understand much. But, I don't think you're actually malicious or anything. I think you're trying, and I probably shouldn't hold things against you that you probably can't help.
    I thought a bully has malicious intentions - the intention to harm innocent people and especially people the bully sees as weak. I do none of that. So please lay off of such accusations.

    I'm trying in terms of understanding what other people need, if you meant that. The people related side of things I don't understand well, sure. Maybe you as ESI, if you are that, are picking up on that as me not understanding things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    This is bs again, I'm sorry. If they ask me to stop asking or stop whatever else, I stop. Ask Slugabed for example, I never bothered her after she asked me.
    I have seen much evidence to the contrary. It's all over the forum.

    Quote Originally Posted by Myst
    I definitely don't run around posting in "almost every post" about how "logical and Ti" I am.
    Oh really? People can read you know.

    Quote Originally Posted by Myst
    I thought a bully has malicious intentions - the intention to harm innocent people and especially people the bully sees as weak. I do none of that. So please lay off of such accusations.
    1.
    a person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker.
    synonyms: persecutor, oppressor, tyrant, tormentor, intimidator; persecute, oppress, tyrannize, browbeat, harass, torment, intimidate, strong-arm, dominate

    Yeah, you do most of those things. I tried, and failed to make you aware of it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Myst
    I'm trying in terms of understanding what other people need, if you meant that. The people related side of things I don't understand well, sure. Maybe you as ESI, if you are that, are picking up on that as me not understanding things.
    No, I meant the logical side. You don't understand the logical part. You also don't read Fe very well, but that's not what I was talking about. I was specifically talking about understanding information. But, I'll try to be a little more patient.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alioth View Post
    LSI and superficially similar to Myst. That's just my onion. My unsubstantiated, unlayered onion.
    Yeah, I get a similar vibe from both squark and Myst as well. I think both are LSI IMO. The conflict between them is probably not type related.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raver View Post
    Yeah, I get a similar vibe from both squark and Myst as well. I think both are LSI IMO. The conflict between them is likely not type related.
    What the original conflict was caused by is that she doesn't like to delve too deep in arguments on the theory. This is a consistent pattern about her, not a one-time occurrence. I do see it as type related.

    I personally don't mind if someone doesn't want to engage but I definitely appreciate it if ending of the debate happens without the other party simply blowing up in frustration like she frequently does it. Still, that was no real big deal to me. I didn't think bad of her because of it.

    Then how the conflict escalated now happened quite possibly because she doesn't mind being driven by personal dislike and acting based on it. Another point against the LSI option.

    Also she I guess lately came to misinterpret my intentions about arguments and calls it bullying now. While I have no intention to personally attack anyone in the arguments. I'm purely interested in the logical debate, in an impersonal "fight" only.

    So well, this is how I see it as easily type related. Of course the Socionics model doesn't account for other factors and I'm sure there are other factors at play here, but the part highly relevant to Socionics is about the interactions in terms of information processing, see as above, again.

    Put another way using the theory extension on Control Emotions (which I find makes quite some sense in general about differentiating weak/strong and valued/devalued functions), she doesn't have very positive Control Emotions for Ti so I highly doubt it's in Ego for her.

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    Yeah at this point anyone who takes this Slade guy (and squark at many points in this thread) seriously at all is insane. I don't really know his motivation for all of this garbage but if he's looking for an LSI online gf this isn't really the way to go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by niffer View Post
    Yeah at this point anyone who takes this Slade guy (and squark at many points in this thread) seriously at all is insane. I don't really know his motivation for all of this garbage but if he's looking for an LSI online gf this isn't really the way to go.
    I'm not a huge fan of hypocrisy or dishonesty, for similar reasons I usually avoid responding to you.
    Hey, feel free to PM me with any opinions about my type

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slade View Post
    I'm not a huge fan of hypocrisy or dishonesty, for similar reasons I usually avoid responding to you.
    Hypocrisy?

    Well no I'm not on my period atm.

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