Is your mother your dual?

[Adam Strange]

I'm still unsure about my type. My mom is ESFj, and if she's my dual, we have a terrible relationship. Growing up was a nightmare. Really unstable, incompatible and intense, she's everything that I'm not. We argue all the time, she's always critical of every little thing I do and she is the only person in the world that makes me lose my cool.

@Ajna, my LII sister and my LSE mother hate each other. My mother was always criticizing my sister, and my sister just did not take that well. My LII sister went through several husbands and many BF's, but now she's married to an LSE.

After you become an adult, people tend to treat you better, and with more respect. My sister would have been better off with an ESE, IMO.