I do think it's fucked up that she has gone through that, but I also find it difficult to respect people who don't stand up for themselves, or to give sympathy to those who aren't trying to do anything about their own problems. Especially when she most likely not only lied about what Amber did, which could be chalked up to coercion and thus understandable, but also where she slept, which I think shows she's not Miss Innocent herself and something is off. Maybe she was just trying too hard to sell her story and get sympathy, though.