thanks mod
LSE: You can't bang a personality.
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LSE: Recently I went through *something bad* and I put it on social media. So I get messages from girls saying, "You're a nice guy," or, "You're a great guy-"
EII: And they're right about it, 'cause you really are
LSE: Yeah shutthefuckup.
EII: *laughs*
LSE: Then they share their own bad experiences with me, like in a heartfelt manner, and it's very-
EII: That means they trust you.
LSE: So 50% of my DMs are girls sliding in and 50% of the girls messaging me are like, people trying to share intimate negative experiences they had. So I have this weird- so it's like this weird dichotomy and I'm really worried about responding to the wrong DMs with the wrong kind of response.
EII: Oh! I'm just gonna say it- you're afraid you're going to hit on a girl that is feeling really sad.
LSE: *giggles* Haha yeah.
EII: *laughs* Well that just shows how considerate you are and that you really just want to make people comfortable, right?
LSE: *serious tone* What I'm trying to say is... I thought I would be happy if I had girls DMing me but I don't feel... it. It's very superficial sense of fulfillment.
EII: Right.
LSE: I feel like DMing will never make me interested in girls.
EII: You heard it here first! *jokingly* Don't DM LSE or it's over.