It would be horrible if you used socionics to justify your relationship, more so than anything because you are wrong about your type; its actually incredibly obvious from your posting history and other little tidbits. I'm not even saying this because of my dislike for you, I'm saying this because you are making a terrible, terrible mistake based off a system you don't even fully grasp; its obvious because what you describe doesn't even sound like duality, you have a magical bullshit conception of a fairyland your delusions are creating.