Very strongly doubt that's still true. He is clearly unhealthy, which means most people who are attracted to him will also be. I have simply come from unhealthy circumstances and then overcame it all.
I sort of regret sharing now, I usually don't share my personal things in this community due to its high toxicity levels (as you can see, the responses are negative, which I knew before I shared would be the case and acted against my better judgment for the sake of making a point)...but what's done is done...
It's pretty coincidental that he called me a narc for calling out his invalidation, because the inability to recognize invalidation (thinking it is normal) is one of the reasons why those with narcissistic parents become narcissist magnets: they tolerate invalidation such as that which was done above. Him responding to my calling out the invalidation with "go away, narc" is actually a red flag that makes him sound like he is potentially a projecting narc. None of my actions were narcissistic, yet that sort of invalidation he demonstrated was something narcs always do. My recognition of it, and intolerance of it, only serves as proof that I am in fact enforcing healthy boundaries, exactly as I've said.
The reason that's such a coincidence though, is because it relates to why I used to end up with those guys.
https://youtu.be/UUUbacS8eaE
The other part requires more typing, so I will respond once I am behind a computer rather than using my phone to type.
Originally Posted by Noir
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