Originally Posted by
Noir
Not gonna lie or sugar coat, I think that's incredibly delusional. It's just chemicals in your brain doing things because you feel attracted, it's really not that deep. Lol, the person you experience limerence toward doesn't even always reciprocate interest, btw.
My life partner, with whom I have the mutual intention of marrying within the next few years and staying with for life, was not someone I experienced limerence with. Instead, we formed a genuine bond that is much deeper than limerence, aka puppy love, over years of time. The many douchebags who fucked me over, cheated on me, lied to me, abused me, etc. in the past before I became healthy, however, I did experience limerence with.
So...no offense, but from where I'm standing, you sound incredibly disconnected from actual social experiences — as though you just read about people while not actually being around them in RL.