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Armitage, from what I have gathered in my perusal of web statements, the "outside observer's" view of the LIE/ESI relationship is basically a rich John paying to be whipped by a woman in a Dominatrix outfit.
But don't take my word for it. Here's one description. Scroll down for ESI (ISFP)/LIE (ENTJ):
https://typingispainintheass.tumblr....y-descriptions.
And here is a gold-digging ESI-Se talking about her Sugar Daddy:
https://imgur.com/gallery/5RuSEjQ
OK, now that you've seen that, you can go forward into the future and try to retain your pride in all of your new romantic relationships. Lol.
In my own experience, there is an element of truth to these descriptioins, because ESIs have love (Fi) and LIEs have money (Te), and we all tend to give what we've got. It's not perfectly accurate as a description of the relationship, but it's definitely trending in that direction.
The ILI-SEE dual pair is said to be worse, though. More of an Ni-Se Victim-Aggressor thing.
*EDIT*
It's funny, but the relationship doesn't FEEL to me like it's an exchange of love for money, but when I back up, I see that I'm usually the one who pays for everything and the ESI is the one who is interested in being with me.
I dated an ESI-Fi last summer, and I ended up paying for everything. I don't think she paid for a single thing on any date, until the last one, when she bought two almond croissants; one for her and one for me.
I thought that was progress, but it wasn't as good as the ESI-Se Artist/Decorator, who quickly insisted on paying for her own lunches.