Quote Originally Posted by Comatose Lamiac 007 View Post
When you have lots of witnesses then you are much safer against any sort of prosecution or dealings behind your back. Also as you come clear there will much less broken phone communication. I think it is the perfect solution. I also get very quiet in groups less than 3 or 4 I need more to be vocal.
My ILE friend has talked about finding one-to-one interactions uncomfortable and that she prefers groups, but her reasoning was less based in the fear you described above and more in that she felt pressure to keep a conversation going. In a group she was released from the burden of knowing what to say. Maybe an Fi PoLR thing? I think she appreciates me because she feels we can be together without causing her discomfort...maybe that's how my demonstrative helps her.