At the moment, I believe my mother's type is ESI. Not my dual, but activity, if my current thought process is correct. However, pretty close, I suppose. There are certainly times where things she says and does have hit me pretty hard, though I didn't really realize what was happening. As to how it affected me... can't be certain, maybe it has allowed me to see through my own bullshit faster than others have here, just based on the implications of the original post.

(story time lol) I remember as a kid, how irrationally angry I got at my siblings (Alpha SF and EII) because they were taking more of her attention than I did. I excelled academically, never had an issue with managing schedules or completing work, but I did want her - or someone - to notice it and recognize it. I did not voice it, though, as I knew she did have other things she had to pay attention to more, but it would have been nice.