Quote Originally Posted by asd View Post
Focusing consciously on -Fi is jarring and draining to me. I’m not sure how Gammas do it lol.

but yeah I’m consciously aware of those negative attitudes only as much as I need to be.
I've recently had a chance to talk to an ESI for long periods of time, and her conversations seem to consist mainly of how people have wronged her and her friends. (-Fi = minimization of negative relationships.)

On the other hand, I've talked to an EII for years and her conversations consist mainly of warm, supportive feelings towards people. (+Fi)

It's an amazing difference.

Of the two, I obviously much prefer the EII, but I've found that the EII can't motivate me into action. So it would seem that I have to choose between a positive companion and getting nothing done, or a negative companion and actually getting stuff done.

This seems like a bad deal to me.