Those were exactly what I was thinking about this SLI-Te I know. It's a popular opinion that SLIs don't have expectations for their partners but that was not true ime, sometimes I think they just give up and settle with someone even if they're not perfect (in their heads). They also think they're not good enough for "that miss perfect" and if people see their flaws then they would not like to be with them anymore, I don't think the SLI-Te I know really understood the meaning of being with someone despite their flaws. He is capable of loving his family but he seems to be putting a lot of expectations on others and searching for the right one, but imo he needs to understand and learn more how to love someone truly, outside of his family.