I can't resist the temptation to, uh, come in here and test out my budding Ti
On average, men do have higher sex drives than women. However, there are a minority of women whose sex drives exceed that of the average male. Think of two bell curves, one for men and one for women, with their medians at a different point. Here is an uncontroversial example, one showing you the difference between male and female height:
The same principle applies here.
There is indeed a reason that women who sleep around a lot are shamed, but men are not. The reason is simple; male and female sexuality are not the same.
Women are pretty much guaranteed reproductive success, but men are not. As such, if women are "sleeping around", they're probably only doing it with a small number of men, leaving the rest of the men with no sexual capital. As a result, these unlucky men become unproductive - after all why bother to create if you don't have a stake in future generations?
This is why...
A double standard may not seem fair, but it's nonetheless essential for us to successfully reproduce and expand as a society. After all, we are constantly in competition with other civilisations for territory and dominance, most of whom (such as the Islamic world) tightly control female sexuality to ensure that reproductive success is high.
Feminism has been a disaster for the West, mainly because it has encouraged women to delay childbirth and avoid monogamous relationships - leading to the situation in the "female sexuality" diagram.
At least to me they are not "traditional values", but a natural derivative of our biological imperatives. If you're a woman, the chances are that a man will come along, offer sex and you'll have babies. For this reason, sperm is in abundance, and everyone is ultimately better of when women are choosy about who they sleep with.
As a caveat, I do want to say that personality traits - like your desire for emotional intensity, or closure in relationships - have as much to do with Quadra as biological sex. The women of Beta Quadra seem to prefer men who are emotionally intense and expressive, even though they still expect them to be physically dominant and providers.