Quote Originally Posted by Resonare View Post
It's sad but I don't think SEE females actually chase ILI men until later on in life when they want a "weak" provider they can exert power over.

The ones that fail become "cougars" , but it's interesting how an age gap tends to be prevalent in this dual dyad
Age gaps are always going to be common for evolutionary reasons. Men accrue resources over time and women, in the end, desire a big fat pile of resources so that they can be sure that any and all kids they happen to bear are taken care of along with themselves. Thing is though, the and kinda get that subconsciously. The has a lifestyle in mind yet doesn't know how to really fund it. The knows how to fund damn near any swank lifestyle on way less than you'd think in a much easier to achieve basis than the "conventional" wisdom would say is possible but lacks the impetus to do anything except wait and see how events turn out. Basically, they bide their time and don't commit to a plan (that has a 9 out of 10 chance of going just as planned, we are very thorough in our plotting and already have a plan B and C ready to go if A gets fucked) unless someone is pushing them to do so. This is why they like each other so much, they wanna buy what the other is selling. The is pushing, and all is waiting for is to be pushed .