I would stick with ENFp or INFp. Because you do not seem as discipline-loving as the INFj's I know. I don't know about Maritsa in this aspect, but my two good INFj friends do much better with the "system" than I do, they are much more comfortable with it. One has been a speech pathologist for many years, never feeling confined by the system. I taught for 9 years but when I left when my son was born I have felt relief to not be in that "rat's wheel" of a system, even though I totally conformed to it when I needed to. I like the freedom of subbing and time to have all these other ideas going. I also loved the freedom and choice of homeschooling for the 3 years I did and was upset to leave that and never comfortable with the school system (even though my son was in one of the best) which I had to "resort" to that after divorce, and now that my son is in his last year of that I feel relief, and glad he will have the relative freedom of college next. I would say my INFj friends are very comfortable conforming to it for their boys and do not share my feelings about it at all.
Not sure if that helps, but it you want to make it easier and just between two, those are the ones I would pick. Your posts are longer and more rambling than any INFj I know, also. And I am assuming you are "she" by your writing style.
For me in MBTI it was always a cross between INFp and ENFp, leaning ENFp, but in Socionics its much more clear.
So if its between INFp and ENFp, you might want to read these and see which is more you:
Female INFp:
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...NFp-by-Beskova
Female ENFp:
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...NFp-by-Beskova
Then there is Erotic types. INFp and ENFp are different types and are most satisfied with different types (And in Erotic Type, ENFp and INFj are the same, and INFp is completely different):
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...otic-Attitudes
Also you can see where you fit in with Renin Dichtonomies. Probably you , like me, will find some of the Dichtonomies quite clear, others not so clear. Try "Carefree or Farsighted". Of your three, ONLY the ENFp is "Carefree", the other two, INFj and INFp are, "Farsighted".
Also "Merry or Serious" would narrow you down to INFp if you are sure on that Dictonomy. Because only INFp is "Merry". The other two, ENFp and INFj, are "Serious" types.
The "Merry - Serious" link further breaks it down to Subjectivist (Merry) and Objectivist (Serious).
You can further confirm if you are INFp by looking at "Asking/Declaring". Of the three types you are considering,
only INFp is an Asker. Both INFj and ENFp are Declarers. To me, Askers can be rather jarring, with their question-asking conversational style. This is rather irritating in my Supervisee, but in my Dual, its endearing, and I just answer lightly when he asks questions just to make conversations, rather than tend to feel like I am being interrogated, like I do with my Supervisee.
Also see "Yeilding and Obstinate". If you are INFp or INFj you are yielding. If you are ENFp you are instead Obstinate.
So you can link to the different Renin Dichtonomies on the blue links on the table at the top of this page:
http://www.socionics.us/wikisocion/R...hotomies.shtml