A girl I know (including VI)

[snegledmaca]

Yeah, a lot of times the nicest ones are the most manipulative, so I guess I can see where you're coming from. Unless you meant something else.

That is roughly what I meant. Although I would describe it as being engulfed. That is, the other person kind of engulfs you like roots of a tree and slowly suffocates your liberty, or disassociates you from certain aspects of yourself like your free time and so on.

[strrrng]

That is roughly what I meant. Although I would describe it as being engulfed. That is, the other person kind of engulfs you like roots of a tree and slowly suffocates your liberty, or disassociates you from certain aspects of yourself like your free time and so on.

Ok, this makes sense.

[Minde]

That is roughly what I meant. Although I would describe it as being engulfed. That is, the other person kind of engulfs you like roots of a tree and slowly suffocates your liberty, or disassociates you from certain aspects of yourself like your free time and so on.

Interesting. And this is how she comes across to you, as someone who might suffocate your liberty and disassociate you from certain aspects of yourself?

As for her type, a possible Alpha SF in your opinion, do you think that because of your own personal reaction to her, e.g. "she must be such-and-such because of my reaction to her," or because her looks and manner fit the socionics theory, e.g. she looks Ne/Si and Fe/Ti valuing?

[snegledmaca]

Interesting. And this is how she comes across to you, as someone who might suffocate your liberty and disassociate you from certain aspects of yourself?

Not really. It was more of an elaboration on a possibility. She just seems really friendly and I find that upsetting.

As for her type, a possible Alpha SF in your opinion, do you think that because of your own personal reaction to her, e.g. "she must be such-and-such because of my reaction to her," or because her looks and manner fit the socionics theory, e.g. she looks Ne/Si and Fe/Ti valuing?

Second.

[The Greeter]

I remember a long time ago that you posted a picture of yourself. And the person in the picture kind of reminds me of you.

So I'll say INFj.

[Minde]

I remember a long time ago that you posted a picture of yourself. And the person in the picture kind of reminds me of you.

So I'll say INFj.

That's not following the directions.

This girl has appeared in some of my photos on here before. If you therefore recognize her please (at least temporarily) forget past associations and just look at what's presented in this thread.

[ann2430]

That's not following the directions.

Minde - So are these pics of yourself? I'm guessing they are, because most people wouldn't post pics of a friend on a public forum, unless you had her permission I guess. So the girl is an INFj then?

[redbaron]

well I think she's very pretty. but... like some others have said, there's something about the pics that I don't like. I didn't want to be unfair tho so I wasn't going to say anything. I think it's because she seems very aware that her picture's being taken and I feel like she's posing. Even when she's not looking right at the camera. It's a sense of being self-conscious maybe. Like she's an actress. Even in the pics where she's looking at the computer it's like i can tell she's not really concentrating on the computer.

[Expat]

If not INFj, the second type I'd guess for her is ISFp.

[The Greeter]

That's not following the directions.

Sorry. Let me try again.

Just analyzing the picture, I don't know if it's the photography or the aura the person gives but she seems calm and gentle, even in the ones where she smiles and is a bit more energetic.

At the very least, she gives off a Delta vibe. She seems like a playful person around people or things she enjoys being around. I'm mostly refering to the picture of the dog. Also, some of the pictures I can see the person kind of relishing her environment/in her own world (the fire picture).

Even before postulating that it may be you, Minde, I thought this person may have been an INFj.

Is that better?

The pictures are very good.

[Park]

Even before postulating that it may be you, Minde, I thought this person may have been an INFj.

She does look like her a little.

[Minde]

Minde - So are these pics of yourself? I'm guessing they are, because most people wouldn't post pics of a friend on a public forum, unless you had her permission I guess. So the girl is an INFj then?

No, it's not me. And she doesn't mind me posting them online. Don't worry, I asked.

well I think she's very pretty. but... like some others have said, there's something about the pics that I don't like. I didn't want to be unfair tho so I wasn't going to say anything. I think it's because she seems very aware that her picture's being taken and I feel like she's posing. Even when she's not looking right at the camera. It's a sense of being self-conscious maybe. Like she's an actress. Even in the pics where she's looking at the computer it's like i can tell she's not really concentrating on the computer.

Yeah, she's not the best actor. (Which means that even though she's pretty, sometimes I have to work a little harder to get "natural" shots of her when I'm trying to get model-like shots.) And, yet, she almost always seems to have a sort of, hm, emotional barrier between herself and most of the world. Not a harsh barrier, like some do. Quite the opposite, actually. But sometimes she is not straightforward about what she really deeply thinks, feels, or wants. She can be very accommodating.

There are a few in there where she didn't know I was taking the picture, like the fire and where she's talking with the market seller. So that "fake" feel you (an Fe-ego, right?) sense might just be how she naturally acts when around people and not just cameras. It's actually an interesting observation of yours.

If not INFj, the second type I'd guess for her is ISFp.

Why, if I may ask?

Sorry. Let me try again.

Just analyzing the picture, I don't know if it's the photography or the aura the person gives but she seems calm and gentle, even in the ones where she smiles and is a bit more energetic.

At the very least, she gives off a Delta vibe. She seems like a playful person around people or things she enjoys being around. I'm mostly refering to the picture of the dog. Also, some of the pictures I can see the person kind of relishing her environment/in her own world (the fire picture).

Even before postulating that it may be you, Minde, I thought this person may have been an INFj.

Is that better?

The pictures are very good.

Thank you.

She wasn't really being that playful with the dog. Well, sort of - in that she's generally self-controlled around him. But she doesn't have a completely positive relationship with the animal, and in that picture she was genuinely telling him what she thought of him.

And, thank you, much better.