Originally Posted by
Shackleton
I didn't contest that it was inconsiderate for him to continue interaction after you told him not to, I said that it's not grounds for a report. I didn't contest that he was a j type, I contested that harassment is a j thing. And finally, I'm not interested in discussing your type. So we're mostly in agreement.
For what it's worth, one thing you both have in common is addressing shit I didn't actually say.
J is not equal as harassment, thats true, but a lot of the way J types interact with others can fall at times in that regard. Some ppl of the types LIEs, LSIs, LSE for example in this forum, had presented behavior that can be considered as harass in some instances. Now @
User Name is right, maybe its Se more inclined to harassing interactions since LSE has 4DSe and LIE is Se valuer and LSI is Se creative.
Anyway, asking a question is worthy of report when its just part of a
long trail of harassment, like its now clearly shown in this thread. That's why I replied it was harassment therefore, worthy of report. Its not simply inconsiderate. By saying that you disagree in that he talking to me again (via question or whatever) you are disregarding the importance of his abuse. What you do is inconsiderate, what he does is harassment.
So, what you consider worthy or unworthy of report subjectively is inconsequential, since you are not an implicated part and you know practically nothing about the situation in depth. The two conversations through posts you have read between he and me doesn't give you enough information about the matter since its not the primary channel of communication he has been using with me all this time before I blocked him. He started talking to me via pms after I asked for his subtype in visitor message.
Now, what he did and does (not only to me, but to users like @
Sol, @
Bertrand and other ppl possibly, by recalling them often in a derogatory way in his posts) in here IS CALLED HARASSMENT:
Online
Harassment directs multiple repeating obscenities and
derogatory comments at specific individuals focusing, for example, on the targets' race,
religion, nationality, disability, or sexual orientation. This often occurs in chat rooms, through newsgroups, and by sending hate e-mail to interested parties.
Psychological
This is humiliating, intimidating or abusive behavior which is often difficult to detect, leaving no evidence other than victim reports or complaints. This characteristically lowers a person’s self-esteem or causes one torment.
This can take the form of verbal comments, engineered episodes of intimidation, aggressive actions or repeated gestures. Falling into this category is workplace harassment by individuals or groups mobbing.
Religious
Verbal, psychological or physical harassment is used against targets because they choose to practice a specific religion.
Religious harassment can also include forced and involuntary conversions.
The way he interacts with ppl is basically abusive and invasive, so due the nature of his interactions, I took some distance from pms so after like 2 days of me not talking to him, he went upset and said to me that he wont talk to me again because our chats were too "infrequent" since I wasn't 24/7 responding to him (as he wanted and I consider sick), and because of my friendship with @
Bertrand with whom he had arguments.
Then he repeatedly has been using religion to harass me personally and publicly, he called me a harlot through pms just because pictures of cloth I posted, since I didn't answer to him and blocked him (obviously), he came to pursue me in posts (the test thread) and again tried to use
other topics to get my attention back at his person (on that occasion a post of mine about tests scores in which you interacted too; and right now the question about my type), to conceal his real intentions that are vent his frustration because I ignore him and hurt me making allusion again about my religious and sexual life (of what he knows nothing, btw), to expose my "immorality" according his religious Pharisaical beliefs, due to what I asked to him for first to stop talking to me and he agreed, plus anything of that was thread or socionics related, pretty much like now. My type wasnt the topic of this thread.
And like you can note in here, I asked to him to not speak to me again for second time (which is my right since forced or involuntary conversations are harassment) and just right after saying that he wont talk to me anymore, he tried to provoke me and push me to talk to him again, spreading lies about the situation and my religious beliefs since its the only weapon he has to try to retaliate.
So all of that is harassment as you can see. If you consider that as simply inconsiderate its your personal opinion, but thats harassment in 3 different instances (online, psychological and religious) by definition and its worthy of report due its abusive nature.
So I hope moderators banning him soon. Since he's not even interested in socionics but to harass ppl, especially women.
And I hope him not mentioning me, quoting me or anything since he says he wont just for ending up doing it anyway and derailing every thread he speaks some to try to call my attention, make drama and attack me using socionics, religion or the inventions of his twisted mind.