Self-serving? I was airing my frustrations with Socionics and was not aimed at you per se. The moment that you decided to make something of my comment and lecture me, then I decided to make something of it. Before that, nothing.Originally Posted by JuJu
Should you not have reconsidered yourself? Should I have been the only one to reconsider? Might you not be incorrect? Should you perhaps stop making mountains out of mole-hills? Have you not considered that you may be overreacting and taking this personally a little too much? Yes I was belittling you because you took my comment way too personally, work yourself, and you continue to do so now.In your second post directed at me, rather than reconsider the content of your original post in light of what I wrote--i.e. how it might've been presumptuous/incorrect--you reacted by belittling me (full sentence 1) and then by posturing to attempt to make yourself come across as holier-than-thou (full sentence 2.) You book-ended it with computer abbreviations, which denote that you're laughing, (belittling.)
Two ugly things? Exaggerate much?Now you ask, "what does it tell?"
For all I know, Logos, you're a very nice person who has, for whatever reason, just posted two ugly things on an internet forum--ascribing motives to a person you don't know, belittling a person who was trying to defend himself from incorrect insinuations...
You're making another mistake now by not only misjudging my character but also by acting as if the paper-cut I inflicted upon you is somehow a dagger twisted in your side. If you feel belittled by this comment, fine, but I'm just telling you how I see the situation.Ppl make mistakes all the time--I do too, sometimes thoughtlessly... Like I said, I do not know anything about you; I do not know your character... It's only been revealed to me through these two posts... It's my hope that these posts aren't representative of your character, (for your own sake, as well as mine interacting with you) however, like I said, I do not know.
What kind of reaction do I expect? To be largely ignored. (Look at Gilly's reaction - as you can see, he is in all tears and cursing my name for this great slight of his honor!) I expected no reaction at all, and least of all a lecture from someone who feels as if they are being injustly picked-on by an aside observational comment.To answer your question: of course you can post "thoughts that aren't helpful" on this forum, or anywhere--but if you're going to direct them at someone and insinuate that someone-you-don't-know has ill-motives--honestly, what kind of reaction do you expect?
You are taking that one comment of mine WAY TOO personally. You are also revealing quite a bit about your character as well, and for your sake, I hope that you too are having a rough day (or going through male PMS), because you are certainly losing my respect.Obviously, how a person reacts to such incidents reveals character... Ideally, one will take into account the other person's point of view... I understand that you might've just been making a bad joke, or having a rough day--regardless, let's move on, unless you feel like talking about this more could help in any way... Peace, -Justin
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