I seriously sometimes can't tell an ESTJ from an ISTJ...
If the ESTJ is really unhappy, quiet, stressed, they seem similar to ISTJ to me...and I can't tell them apart at all.
Some ISTJs are SO outgoing and loud, and some ESTJs are quiet...I'm utterly confused.
All the usual clues have failed me...such as trying to tell if they want Fe, etc.
How can I distinguish these two types more easily?
Thanks!