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    A dual only contributes to the team, and usually and most importantly, doesn't interfere with their partner's thinking processes. Non-interference implies not trying to get into the other person's head or to supplant their ideas. On average, this helps to create a conducive environment and or harmonious team but there certainly isn't melding or merger of minds or souls, or functions. I don't often pair duals for many projects because although they often get along with one another, their skill sets are so different that they don't usually pull on the same oars.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
    I don't often pair duals for many projects because although they often get along with one another, their skill sets are so different that they don't usually pull on the same oars.
    This is an important realization. Dualization does not so much mean two people can work together effortlessly, its more like responsibilities and tasks get automatically distributed according to personal skills and strengths. This is what I see each and every time in dealings with SLI cooks: things run very smooth, not so much because we work together on the same problem, but different problems get distributed very smoothly, almost without communication.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
    A dual only contributes to the team, and usually and most importantly, doesn't interfere with their partner's thinking processes. Non-interference implies not trying to get into the other person's head or to supplant their ideas. On average, this helps to create a conducive environment and or harmonious team but there certainly isn't melding or merger of minds or souls, or functions. I don't often pair duals for many projects because although they often get along with one another, their skill sets are so different that they don't usually pull on the same oars.

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    Plus I’m weaker physically so I don’t work well in physical projects maybe because I’m a woman however it depends on the field. The dual LSE and EII men at work find it easy and comfortable to work together because they are doing medical work and they are all males
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    Plus I’m weaker physically so I don’t work well in physical projects maybe because I’m a woman however it depends on the field. The dual LSE and EII men at work find it easy and comfortable to work together because they are doing medical work and they are all males
    Are those duals doing exactly the same job? Physical characteristics aside, I found that duals with equivalent training tend to focus on much different aspects of the same field. Perhaps with more narrowly defined jobs, there's not as much leeway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
    Are those duals doing exactly the same job? Physical characteristics aside, I found that duals with equivalent training tend to focus on much different aspects of the same field. Perhaps with more narrowly defined jobs, there's not as much leeway.

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    Yes they are all nurses with the same duties
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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