You come off so negativist to me “I doubt they read it” when I read every word of itOriginally Posted by Magellan
You come off so negativist to me “I doubt they read it” when I read every word of it
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I agree with you with me being negativist, but I don't know how much truth there lies behind reinin dichotomies.
Okay where is your Fi and Ne?
How do you evaluate people and relationships?
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
1) My Fi lies in the focus on my perception of the people around me, my desire to live a respectful life, and my natural tactfulness. My Ne is my dreamish essence. The fact that I'm always looking for objective opportunities for realisation in a dreamish way;
2) According to their tactfulness, mainly. It's also important for me that they can be quiet most of the time. And the positive intention behind their actions. You notice it when people are there to mess with you or if they're gentle souls;
3) Same as point 1. I just like people when they're as described in point 1, and when they reflect those characteristics it's easier to share common activities. Having shared interests or being already forced to share time is a bonus point. It's good when you get along well with colleagues.
how do you evaluate people and relationships
I look and feel the people around me. Their stories draw me in. I mostly fall pray to their sad stories wanting them to know at least that someone is listening to them. I evaluate people’s actions in terms of their helpfulness and honorableness.
I have many stories. An SEE coworker was not handling customers well she was slamming the phone on people and was so intolerabley short (feeling her frustrations). I helped her move to another position and be in a more powerful position away from petty detail customer service requests that allowed her to make more money and sustaining lifestyle by fostering her strength. She did something to betray me later and is now trying to regain my friendship but that’s not going to happen because she betrayed me and crossed a line. My extreme stubbornness shows through here and in other situations.
I too am very tactful and help people find and understand the inner qualities of others around them. Through understanding of people’s personal intricacies and individual traits I hope that people will have better more peaceful relationships with each other. My understanding of people allows me to forgive them and not take a lot of mean statements personally or to my heart. When bad comments don’t stick to you you can have close relationships and people will feel better about being themselves.
There are multitude of ways I approach people and relationships. I just find the right key to each person.
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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