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    Yeah, well, that could explain why I ended up with an IEE but we are in constant conflict. I am certainly not feeling any duality, more like constant misunderstanding of intentions and incompatible values.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Northstar View Post
    Yeah, well, that could explain why I ended up with an IEE but we are in constant conflict. I am certainly not feeling any duality, more like constant misunderstanding of intentions and incompatible values.
    The trouble with duality is that many people do not want what's good for them and they won't often realize the benefit of such relationships until they've thrown them away. Yes, they do often have very different values but healthy duals are usually capable of covering their partners back - they certainly won't assure them eternal bliss.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
    The trouble with duality is that many people do not want what's good for them and they won't often realize the benefit of such relationships until they've thrown them away. Yes, they do often have very different values but healthy duals are usually capable of covering their partners back - they certainly won't assure them eternal bliss.........

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    Yeah, maybe. The most recent interaction was me commenting a gambling commercial that only idiots play those casino games and expect to end up winning. IEE of course got offended and asked if it’s draining to be so condescending of other people. I replied, truthfully, that it isn’t at all, it comes naturally without effort.
    What do you make of that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Northstar View Post
    Yeah, maybe. The most recent interaction was me commenting a gambling commercial that only idiots play those casino games and expect to end up winning. IEE of course got offended and asked if it’s draining to be so condescending of other people. I replied, truthfully, that it isn’t at all, it comes naturally without effort.
    What do you make of that?
    Would you say conflict with IEEs (and EIIs) is a recurring theme in your life?

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    Quote Originally Posted by queentiger View Post
    Would you say conflict with IEEs (and EIIs) is a recurring theme in your life?
    Yeah, as far as I can type them correctly. But usually their antics annoy me and vice versa. They just seem so damn touchy and ”understanding” of people I despise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Northstar View Post
    Yeah, as far as I can type them correctly. But usually their antics annoy me and vice versa. They just seem so damn touchy and ”understanding” of people I despise.
    I see - because if it was one or two occurrences then you could be duals (as duals aren't always great), however that being said if it is a common pattern scaling across your whole life - beta ST (LSI in this case, given you're on about IEEs) would be the better fit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by queentiger View Post
    I see - because if it was one or two occurrences then you could be duals (as duals aren't always great), however that being said if it is a common pattern scaling across your whole life - beta ST (LSI in this case, given you're on about IEEs) would be the better fit.
    That’s why I’m resisting delta typings. Unless I’ve grossly mistyped people then I just get a lot better along with IEI and EIE than IEE/EII. The former tend to agree or at least enjoy the discussion. The latter tend to be offended and say that I’m a bad person in various ways. They get even more offended when I think it’s funny.

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