Generally speaking I do not wish to engage in this kind of public conversations but this time I make an exception. Is it better because of better physical sensations or for psychological reasons?
I ask because I find it to be physically "numbing". If you add to the equation that it is physically exhaustive then it starts to feel more like a sport. It gives you good physical sensations in the same way than doing any sport does. Psychologically it can be enjoyable when there is a strong passion component involved or some kind of "teasing and power play" component (with a right person). However for pure sensory pleasure it doesn't work that well.
well it is a thread about rape/sex/Se/etc isn't it? but yeah....physically it feels great for a few minutes, then you have to kind of scale back. psychologically, early on, it's a turn on. i do agree though to keep it up at that pace is tiring and doesn't feel good if it goes on too long
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those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
Who are these people that are always saying this? Whomever maybe be saying thus and is saying it are perhaps "stupid" people (for want of a word..perhaps not the best, so therefore apologies) who perhaps should be dealing with their own issues, whatever those issues (male and female?) they are specifically.. It's indeed a personal issue not on type I think certainly. It's maybe therefore another thread which realistically should perhaps not exist but yet it does of course and "it" posts on the topic. The real issue is otherwise then from both and INFp and of course Se also.
It is distastefull and clearly as said would be an individual thing if such a thing exits (and sadly I think it may very well do, but it is not as you say a type related subject indeed)
Last edited by Cyclops; 06-28-2008 at 10:19 PM.
I voted for the I am an ESTp and I want an INFp section.
Either that or I'm INFp and I think all ESTp's are soft and weak.
Either that or my Se is bigger than your vagina and me entering it would equal rape.
Either that or you're just waiting for me, ruth.
And I, for you.
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
Fuck. Why do I always get the last say in this kind of threads?
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie
I realize that during a certain age the word "rape" is thrown around ironically, humorously, is that what's happening here?
But to answer the question, I have never felt creepy, unwanted attention from any beta STs. I have felt creeped out by NTs, and that could be bc of the lack of sensual reciprocity between Ni/Ne or Ni/Si.
I personally think that when Se comes into contact with Ni, it becomes self-conscious (and vice versa) and the idea of forcing something that is not wanted by both parties is just a boner killer.
Also, rape is not funny and no one ever asks for it.
Lol hahahahhaa. Best thread ever!
The only thing about rape that makes it hot on some level is the fact that it is rough and animalistic.
At least that is how I feel about it.
You don't need to be actually raped to have that kind of sex though, so...
Check this out.
https://www.quora.com/How-much-money...home-made-porn
Se-seeking here, and I definitely do not wish to be raped. That's such a turn-off, seriously.
I seek Se in the sense that I find myself liking guys who take the lead in romantic situation, like taking the initiative with me and telling me that they like me and asking me to be their girlfriend etc, because I'm too shy and hesitant to make the first move and confess my feelings to a guy no matter how much I may like a guy, so I'd want an assertive guy who isn't afraid to take the lead in such situations.
Lol that would be moving a bit too fast. xD
I actually prefer to start from friendship first. So if a guy is attracted to me at first sight, I'd prefer him to make the first move and befriend me. And then he will try to get closer to me by becoming close friends with me, and then once we managed to become close friends with each other, you know, the type of friends whom I can rely on and is always there for me, then he tells me that he likes me and wants me to be his gf, there is a high chance that I'll accept him. He has to be initiative and persistent with me and mustn't give up on me easily, and he also has to be sincere about me. Once I managed to see these few qualities in a guy, I'll be attracted.
LOL it sounds like you are going to hold out on the poor guy for months and months
I suppose an SLE might be up for this if he wanted a "challenge" and you had qualities he particularly esteemed. However I cannot see the other Aggressors tolerating a prolonged, uncertain courtship.
So an IEI wants to be raped by a gorilla?
A dolphin can apparently perform a very animalistic rape.
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