Scepticism first, theory later in this post.

Now, if one actually uses these methods, the Gamma individual is indeed better off without them Also, why does gender play a role here? It is a social construct - a caricature of evolutionary processes, actually - and differs from human to human obviously

Separating without further destruction (further because to break up, previous damage of some kind needed, anything goes) demonstrates respect and cultivates less broken hearts - for both partners. The pain one inflicts inevitably comes back somehow, Fe PoLR is my daily teacher: people are mirrors. Throw a stone, your own image cracks. On the other hand, everything always works out the way it should, even hurtful things like this. Suffering is preparation for the good times and moments, because otherwise, better days won't be appreciated.

Very well, I composed my own prototype version based on functions to provide for strategies. Please select priority depending on individual function usage:

Breaking up, a Gamma person will...


  • Fi - ("relating well or not relating well to sb") appreciate a principled parting that will clarify that both are on {whatever is desired, ideally: good} terms & simply pursue different paths now, still being able to depend on one another in an emergency case without intense grudges or a great revenge

↠ Fi opposes Ne-Ti. Deliberating whether the relationship has potential or not and how logical the decision is becomes detrimental. It's either together or apart.


  • Se - ("aware of external forces or not") like a straightforward, no-backdoor farewell that entails creation of geographical distance, allocation of persons and belongings, freedom to carry on with one's career/general life pursuits in the social realm, accomplishments are not impacted

↠ Se opposes Ti-Ne. Breaking up simply because of a deduction ("This happened - that determines our end. Rules are rules.") and still looking for parts to fix negatively impacts the process.


  • Ni - ("y happens after x or not") prefer to consider future implications and consequences for their life, looking for things to prevent.

↠ Ni opposes Fe-Si. Being happy or being sad in the current moment should not thwart decision making when it comes to considering the next steps. Present-day convenience should be secondary to increase long-term benefit.


  • Te - ("something is useful or not") break up only when necessary and feasible featuring a reevaluation of resources. All intricacies have to be looked at, all important problems have to be found, approached and solved.

↠ Te opposes Si-Fe. Being comfortable and trying to keep up appearances in the split-up situation will warp all efforts to be efficient and appropriate.


Please add corrections and/or new ideas if you like