EII coworker invited her boyfriend, her best friend, her boyfriend's best friend and me to her house to drink and spend time. EII and his boyfriend were dating for 2 months. We all drunk a lot, her boyfriend' got really drunk and nauseous, then went to bathroom to puke, remained there for a long time, his friend left. EII went afterwards to check up on him but EII came and said that he didnt let her in, in a resentful way. I said that he probably doesnt want to be seen in that position to her, because I wouldnt even want to be seen like that to not only my boyfriend but people at a party also.
However, EII seemed resentful, I didnt understand why. Then after some time, EII's best friend said let me check up on him when EIIs attempts werent unfruitful and she suceed to get in the bathroom. Then when we were on one on one while her friend was at bathroom, EII said that this kind of a thing make people closer and now that they are sharing that time with each other while EII is not (Fi). That kind of a thought shocked me a bit, because I just thought that he doesnt want to be seen that way to his gf and he is fine with her cause she is not important in a way. I didnt understand what she meant by that time making them closer.
When they were checking on him etc, EII came and said that she just saw her best friend giving a bj to her boyfriend, she asked me to stay, I said ok. Then EII's friend and boyfriend came and they all acted like nothing happened. EII's friend said that ok I am gonna sleep and start to nap at living room. EII showed me the guest room. When EII and her boyfriend went to her bedroom. I heard a noise, her friend fleed.
Then since the rooms were next to each to other, I heard EII and her boyfriend discussing this thing. EII remained calm and soft during the speech, her boyfriend on the other hand was lying, yelling then when he was telling the truth he was blaming EII and her friend. I felt a sleep, EII's bf left.
After a few days, maybe a week, EII said to me you know what, I was really curious about what is gonna happen between us and he did this thing and this is not my fault why would I suffer from the consequences of his actions, so I am gonna be with him.
They were together like a year and a half, besides this, her bf was a walking red flag in every kind of sense. Then it ended due to other things. After some years, EII approached to her best friend and see her again not the other way around. She said she knows that she cannot trust her but they still can be friends.
This whole thing is too far from how I perceive and react to things, hence it all seems surreal to me but sums up how Fi approaches to things.
I would kick that them out, I could question him but wouldnt deal with his accusations, I would never forgive him and wouldnt continue the relationship, I wouldnt also forgive the friend and register as her friend even she approached countless times. But I also dont think about how close or distant I am to people lots of times and cannot gauge that very well. So in my eyes, my low Fi keeps me safer from betrayal and mistrust.