Quote Originally Posted by UDP
There is an ingrained pleasantness in neutrality, in my opinion. There is no pressure either way, so it just is. Reminds me of some Zen studies..
maybe, maybe not. being at peace sort of connotes that you were tortured or distressed before.

so i think if you are totally neutral you kind of wouldnt feel anything. haha.

answering the question: i think i am optimistic in that i think that there are things you can do, in general, to better a situation. But that doesn't stop me from being super sensitive and pained at life issues.