Originally Posted by
lavos
You require a boost on your self-confidence. That's what turned her off I think.
Some tips (even though I'm in no position, but still, I would like to help you)
-Do you work out, play a sport, or exercise? If you don't, you will find once you start doing it, you will feel much more comfortable in your own skin (along with the other added benefits).
-Don't ever start the romance attempt in a self-derogatory manner (like that convo you showed). You might do this later once you have a more established relationship. The first impressions are very important.
Regardless, she seems a bit strange (is she IEE?) and maybe not the best choice. It seems she mistook your shyness for sonething else, which I would have found pretty insulting. She might not have meant ill, but that was strange (also considering it might have been partly her fault you happened to present yourself like this, like it's likely).
Find an ENTj or LSE woman, and you'll see how little BS you have to deal with. Good luck.