That's fair.
I mean, like I said, my comment was more of an attempt to help Adam in a way, because I see his method is failing him and it hurts to see. Him saying things like "this duality is hard" or "I can't dualize with ESI because my Fi is too weak" aeren't convincing me either, though this thread is not about Adam, so I digress. (On a side note, we also don't have a balanced view of Adam's relationships, either, but since he keeps saying he is failing in trying to date ESIs, and is so consistent in saying this, I wonder if changing his method would help him)