Ive always...fantasized about someone who is super soft and gentle with me and is not harsh in my presence even if he were capable of it. But that he can use it, if needed, to protect me from those who mean me harm or otherwise in any situation Se might be useful. But even thought of him being that way - even if it’s not to me - but it’s in my presence, churns my stomach a little...

yeah, idk. I guess I trust LSEs with Se and trust that they will use it in a way that’s justified and doesn’t cross any lines.

that’s how I imagine my PoLR being “supported.” Someone who protects me or even warns me that I may get myself into a potential confrontation if I behave in xyz ways lol (I would really appreciate that).