Things got better. We are back together. I really hate when things go gossip, I'm feeling like everyone is ranting and myself is trying to feel where I faulted and diffused a message I shoudn't had to diffuse, ending in potentially losing good friend
I’m happy that all went well. Remember to defuse gossip with your strong ethics like making a statement such as “I believe in the unity of my relationships so I don’t give way to toxic gossip.” This will calm people down from gossiping but you can say “if you have a problem with someone it’s healthy to talk about it with them calmly or if you need to speak with me you should know that I will listen to you but I won’t get involved.” That will make you an independent agent much like a psychologist. But still show your loyalty to friendship by way of forgiveness (no one is perfect).Originally Posted by noaydi
If someone is really bad you can have another level of relationship with them by holding them at a large psychological distance. That means hi and bye and nothing more. They are not the kind of person that you want a part of your life. If they manipulate you by dishonest means of showing love like saying “don’t you love me??” Just keep it business and professional
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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