Quote Originally Posted by sorrowsofyoungwerther View Post
I have a benefactor friendship that I feel overwhelmed in.
The ESTp kind of bulldozes over my thoughts and opinions and I don't feel appreciated or valued. Although the friend reaches out to me and seems concerned. It's a confusing dynamic.
Somehow this doesn't give me the impression they are your Benefactor, and that this is perhaps rather a case of a vs valuing clash.