i've seen it around on this board that people actually like INTJ's. i've looked at many sites at ideal mates, and though i didn' t look really hard, intj is rarily mentioned as something positive in romance.

what i'd like to know is - (male/female) (though perferably from a female that like's INTJ's): what do you like about INTJ's?

i'm trying to figure out if i'm masking the wrong things. they say to be yourself, but i havn't figured out what myself is; as i change my basic matrix every few months to fit new paradigms.

since we are so quiet, and rarily ever blend - what makes someone want to go over to the shy guy off to one corner, staring at this and that?

thanks