Quote Originally Posted by chocolatte View Post
A big factor in attraction is pure familiarity which is why I think a lot of people go for people who are similar to their parents.
as a more obvious example, the well-known trend that women with abusive dads have a higher tendency to get into abusive relationships in adulthood.
Our parents ITR may influence what we think of as a ‘healthy’ relationship too..my parents are supervision so perhaps a relationship with clearly defined roles appeals to me for example..

Semi-duality for example always seemed weird to me. I did briefly consider dating a semi-dual in the past but only one.. as a hypothetical idea, semi-duality doesn’t instantly appeal. Could be to do with the fact my parents relationship appears a little cold (unlike semi-duals).

i have thought about it enough to know it could work but that’s taken a lot of thinking