Alimony when not married

[MidnightWilderness]

yeah but have u heard of hypergamy

Honestly, I am 17 and therefore I have no clue about finances and don't in general think about hypergamy. Still so innocent and pure as to believe in soulmates and things like true love before I morph into cynical adult, which I will fight against the onset of cynicism with my every breath until I die.

Personally I don't understand yet why someone would want to marry a super wealthy man or someone who is smarter than you so that they think you are stupid and dumb all the time.

All I really need is:

An apartment with heating so I don't die from the cold, a bed, toilet, sink, bathtub, stove, countertop, fridge, wifi, computer, and enough food and water and hygiene products so that I don't smell like death. Desk with a chair is nice, but optional. And obviously I need a plate, but I can just eat the food with my hands if necessary.

If I get bored of this, honestly I will just go to the library and read a new book, go outside, maybe just explore town.

All of this costs money of course, but I will just get a job.

My guess of why hypergamy is a thing, people are hardwired to like the feeling of security and comfort and will obviously forgo moral standards of love just to have these things. To not have to work for hours, to have nice things, to just relax, etc. Women are more likely to be hypergamous as originally men were the ones to go out and provide for most of history. A guy with a good job is a successful one and therefore better for breeding with than one who did nothing. Greed and excess have always been problems, but they present differently in the two sexes.

But, but, I still want to believe in true love and no one will stop me! I will not fall to such cynical thoughts!

[Number 9 large]

Honestly, I am 17 and therefore I have no clue about finances and don't in general think about hypergamy. Still so innocent and pure as to believe in soulmates and things like true love before I morph into cynical adult, which I will fight against the onset of cynicism with my every breath until I die.

Personally I don't understand yet why someone would want to marry a super wealthy man or someone who is smarter than you so that they think you are stupid and dumb all the time.

All I really need is:

An apartment with heating so I don't die from the cold, a bed, toilet, sink, bathtub, stove, countertop, fridge, wifi, computer, and enough food and water and hygiene products so that I don't smell like death. Desk with a chair is nice, but optional. And obviously I need a plate, but I can just eat the food with my hands if necessary.

If I get bored of this, honestly I will just go to the library and read a new book, go outside, maybe just explore town.

All of this costs money of course, but I will just get a job.

My guess of why hypergamy is a thing, people are hardwired to like the feeling of security and comfort and will obviously forgo moral standards of love just to have these things. To not have to work for hours, to have nice things, to just relax, etc. Women are more likely to be hypergamous as originally men were the ones to go out and provide for most of history. A guy with a good job is a successful one and therefore better for breeding with than one who did nothing. Greed and excess have always been problems, but they present differently in the two sexes.

But, but, I still want to believe in true love and no one will stop me! I will not fall to such cynical thoughts!

it takes a broken heart to become like that

[SGF]

Honestly, I am 17 and therefore I have no clue about finances and don't in general think about hypergamy. Still so innocent and pure as to believe in soulmates and things like true love before I morph into cynical adult, which I will fight against the onset of cynicism with my every breath until I die.

Personally I don't understand yet why someone would want to marry a super wealthy man or someone who is smarter than you so that they think you are stupid and dumb all the time.

All I really need is:

An apartment with heating so I don't die from the cold, a bed, toilet, sink, bathtub, stove, countertop, fridge, wifi, computer, and enough food and water and hygiene products so that I don't smell like death. Desk with a chair is nice, but optional. And obviously I need a plate, but I can just eat the food with my hands if necessary.

If I get bored of this, honestly I will just go to the library and read a new book, go outside, maybe just explore town.

All of this costs money of course, but I will just get a job.

My guess of why hypergamy is a thing, people are hardwired to like the feeling of security and comfort and will obviously forgo moral standards of love just to have these things. To not have to work for hours, to have nice things, to just relax, etc. Women are more likely to be hypergamous as originally men were the ones to go out and provide for most of history. A guy with a good job is a successful one and therefore better for breeding with than one who did nothing. Greed and excess have always been problems, but they present differently in the two sexes.

But, but, I still want to believe in true love and no one will stop me! I will not fall to such cynical thoughts!

wisdom my father never gave me, but guys imo should know:

1. Romance is for teenagers. Enjoy it while it lasts. Have fun while young. You'll grow cyclical about it later anyway. Movies, shows and books lie about romance, a lot of wishful childish thinking.
2. Relationships are for companionship, so unless you are good friends with her and she is a fun partner you can talk with.. don't consider it serious, you'll get bored of just sex. It won't last.
3. Marriage is for having children. It won't make the 2 people in it happy and one should never marry someone for the reason of "being happy together". The only one who can make yourself happy is you alone.
4. Beware of high status spoiled & entitled "hot" women, they are high maintenance and only worth the effort if its about short term sex and adventure.
5. Don't chase women, ever. Chase your dreams instead. If one catches you and tries to change you, don't allow it. She likes you for who you are, not for who she wants to turn you into. She won't like it if she succeeds.
6. The gym is a temple of iron, worship there regularly well into old age.

/o\ also IF you ever marry be prepared to spend a lot of money and effort constantly remodeling the house and garden, women like that "nesting" shit and watch "fine living" shows... goddamn it. Ofc you won't have any space for your tools and equipment.. and you can't put up posters of naked women in your garage anymore .