Fe creatives & lying

[Stray Cat]

Is it truly a lie in a way? Fe tends to vent and can say mean things doing so, but it doesn't mean they dislike the person deep down, or they do and they are being nice because they can't fathom not being nice. I think the answer can also be filtered through trying to either encourage or discourage a relationship that is judged as favorable or potentialy problematic.
Fe, being dynamic, I think is being built up according to the situation, so the result may vary and look contradictory at times.
This reminds me of Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice where the mom, mrs. Bennet says she always thought mr. Darcy was great even tho she bad-mouthed him before.
His behavior was incorrect, so he was bad, and once it was corrected, according to what the mom think is correct, he became good. The current judgement is ultimate and overwrites all those past.

Te does similar, dynamic function are annoying like that, lol.

It's a lie, especially when the "bad" person's behavior never changed.

[rose]

It's a lie, especially when the "bad" person's behavior never changed.

Ni leads live in the sands of time, watching, not often aware of what they can do. It's the victim thing, stuff happens and they don't think about fighting it, unless a fight is happening. They don't think of acting, so they react.
There's a part of me that hoped if I became good enough, things and people would become good magicaly, doesn't work, lol. That gets better once they hold people to some personal standards, Ti. Ni(or Si) observes things, Fe judges the external situation, then this is held to standards through introverted judgement which can take a long time to build, only after are actions taken.
Those lies are symptoms that something isn't making its way yet.
I think talking about lying can shake things up and help along the way, tho it requires the will to grow to be present in the person. Being a bull in a china shop is probably a plus here. "Probably" because I haven't seen it, I just think it makes sense.