Could a NF actually be a SF? Why it’s possible to get yourself wrong...

[consentingadult]

The thing is about ESE typing is that I don’t relate to the overall descriptors of the type and SEI would fit better in theory. Perhaps I have been leaning a lot on Fi demonstrative and Fe creative? I have felt so anxious and down about myself for a long time, since high school, so in hindsight it makes sense that I would automatically disregard and downplay my strengths. So when SEI has been suggested, I have thought close minded my ‘“nope. I am awful at making things including myself look nice and smoothing over disharmony”. Also, I have seen myself as very introverted, in my bowm headspace a lot of the time and retreating from the world. But perhaps that’s more to do with feeling overwhelmed by the surrounding world? As opposed to being intuitive?

This snippet of text is typical insecure SEI behavior: Mobilizing-Ti, constantly rationalizing and theorizing about their motivations for behavior, and being totally wrong about it. It comes down to totally unfounded speculation, which is a violation of Te principles.

@FlutteringShyxx: you are in need of someone who takes you to arthouse movies and interesting museums. They are called ILEs. Let them do the theorizing ;-)

[justalitnerdxx]

@consentingadult duly noted. My Ti is skewed. I need more interesting museums and artsy movies. Got it

[consentingadult]

@consentingadult duly noted. My Ti is skewed. I need more interesting museums and artsy movies. Got it

No, you misunderstood: you need SOMEONE to take you to these places and let them take the initiative. If you go there by yourself, it doesn't work that well ;-)

In return, you can bake them cookies and teach them how to dance properly!

[justalitnerdxx]

No, you misunderstood: you need SOMEONE to take you to these places and let them take the initiative. If you go there by yourself, it doesn't work that well ;-)

In return, you can bake them cookies and teach them how to dance properly!

If only! My dancing resembles a drunken horse xO