Fe creatives & lying

[marooned]

Idk thinking about freelance post (I'm being lazy and can't bother with tags)...

I agree ESE has the potential to be incredibly honest and what you see is what you get emotionally. However, I've known a couple who were pretty nasty.

I personally can lie to evade situations or things that might be done to me but in these cases the lie will often be half true and really if you look at it slightly differently it can be seen as all true within context. This is bc I don't really want to be "caught" and this way I can't be bc it's too amorphous. Although, the less I pay attention the more I increase my risks.

In close relationships though I don't really lie much. Most of my lying is simple, and is trying to cope with the onslaught of the external world.

As for games, sometimes things are both a game and not a game; true in a certain light to communicate that truth not to be universally true, etc.

Eta: I also feel a strain with Fi in that even though it's unvalued it has to keep weighing in on everything, and the valued Fe/Ti is always trying to work around how judgey it is. The aim isn't really to be clear on all personal attitudes to all people... I like to keep that info hidden and in part it's bc unlike with Fi lead, the Fi attitudes I have actually ARE more wishy-washy. I mean, Fe creative adapts to Fi polr duals, if it got all eii about it's Fi attitudes, that wouldn't work so well lol