How to tell if an ESFj is interested in you?

[Elro]

ESFj females also have a tendency to be very very pushy with relationships ... especially if they know they have a guy wrapped around their fingers. Just a little warning, they have been known to chase people away with their constant insistence and pushing for a deeper relationship. If you do not know how to deal with that, I would not necessarily go for an ESFj.

WEll, the real question is, it seems that McNew has changed his type since this post. Does he (and other people) agree that ESFjs act that way?

Yes. Yes yes yes, unless I've mistyped the one person I know that I think is ESFj. I also don't like watching them manipulate people...

Maybe these are exceptions, though? I'm kinda working with a limited sample. I've gotta know more than one ESFj, but I've only identified this one. Edit: and I think my opinion of this person's type has changed.

rmcnew's type changing might explain why he didn't speak so highly of ESFj in the earlier posts - they may not be his activity partners after all.