It's an awful thread. I don't know any good reason to revive it. But I do honestly think Minde is the EII she thinks she is. She is not SEI. I think you and Minde are EII, and probably different subtypes. @
Minde I think is Fi (perhaps she may think otherwise), and you may be Ne**, although the corpulent figure, obviously is not you! Other than that ONE thing not fitting you from the Ne description*, the other parts of the Ne description do seem a very good fit for you. I am thinking from this subtype description:
https://www.sociotype.com/socionics/...INFj/subtypes/ . I have two longtime EII friends - one of each! If you read those two subtype descriptions, they are so different you might even think they were two different types.
I think sometimes if you are looking at someone as being just like you because they are your type, that is being too narrow, because obviously there are more than 16 or 32 types in the world... Or, Minde might be a completely different astrological star sign than you, one you do not relate well to, and because you don't relate well you think you are not the same Sociotype. Could be that.
*I know another very trim EII-Ne, and she was born with a "twisted-stomach", and ate little growing up, and seems to eat plenty now, but she has never had excess fat; she is noticeably fat-free. So not not all EII-Nes are corpulent, maybe only in the right conditions. I do know one very attractive EII-Ne with plenty of padding on her lushly hourglass figure though.
* I am thinking that the Ne subtype might be you especially because of this overall description: "
emotional, composed, and firm". Yes. And, ".
Sensitive, vulnerable, uncertain and erratic. Prone to taking offense despite his best attempts to hide this.... Tries not to say unpleasant things to people, but cannot always restrain himself and may burst out in disagreement or indignation." Warning: don't become corpulent, or your gait might become "a bit clumsy and waddling"!