I understand exactly what you are saying.

I have been typed as a xSI (ESI > LSI, although LSI has been suggested), but I CANNOT see myself as friends with most LIEs. I don't want a partner that is too blunt or dominant, and some LIEs can certainly be like that. I like to be in leadership roles, and I can be pushy sometimes. Although, I would say, not to the same extent as SLEs.

I think that I am too imaginative, outwardly emotive, and goofy to be any kind of xSI. SEE or EIE may seem more probable.