I had this thought recently regarding xLEs Fi Polr and their consequent difficulties with evaluating their relations. Trusting the wrong people and being shocked/surprised when they face betrayal due to this.

But then wouldn't that mean that those with high Fi (ExIs and xEEs) would be more accurately able to avoid these situations? To me, the high-Fi ability to adjust relations according to internal emotional states doesn't sound like it would necessarily produce a different result to an Fi-Polr's constant uncertainty at judging a relation. Both situations means that these judgments are never static and can change at any moment. Fi-Polrs are known for not really taking offense to anything yet still being mistrustful of others. However, ExIs are known for being judgemental and untrustworthy in a way that is different but still produces a person who ultimately has issues trusting others.

Also, would this mean that the definition of 'trust' and 'betrayal' would change depending on whether that person values Fi or Ti?