EII - Manipulative meekness?

[lurker]

Hello

I'm here because I have a question on the perception of EIIs. Are they manipulative in a passive, obscure way?

If you say yes, please explain how and why. I'm used to seeing brief responses to threads on this topic which is a shame since many of the said things were really cool and mind-stimulating.

Examples (paraphrased & taken out of my memory):
"EII has an 'angelic' image but deep inside them is unbridled anger."
"EII can be subtly manipulative."
"EII can act nice but I wish they would be direct and tell me they dislike me."
"The neurotic EIIs are not fun to be around." (May not have to do with manipulation but still interesting)

So what do these things tell you about their personality? Want to talk about the deep-seated anger? I do!

If you're an EII that feels offended by this thread or its responses, please don't post here. I want the responses to be as honest and open as possible. Thanks.

Edit: EIIs are very welcome- I just mean I'd rather have this thread be informative than an argument. No exclusion here!