Originally Posted by
XoX
asking for help is a sign of weakness and a bad thing...but receiving help without asking is ok I guess...and helping people in need is mandatory or you are considered to be "evil". That might be a better description even if it conflicts with what I wrote earlier
I think this is common for most of the Western world (i.e. North-Western Europe, US) and has its root in Christian morality. The thing is, this morale is psychologically wrong. It is said it works like this: