I was invited here by my best friend. I hope it's fun here 😼
I was invited here by my best friend. I hope it's fun here 😼
Welcome to the forum. If you participate, it will live once again!
you may get the help with your type as you seem F
cool, hi!
Lmao imagine being so pretentious you try to guess someones type from two comments
My psychiatrist told me I have sociopathic tendencies. You will be my first victim muahhaaha *maniacal laughter*
hi !!
Lol wtf is this thread. "I don't think you are the type you say you are based on a few comments, but feel welcome". Yeah, very welcoming lol.
To try and keep with the spirit of this thread, I first also thought you weren't LIE but then I saw you mentioned it somewhere that you are female. And then it instantly made sense yeah. Your energy is the same certain strong & erratic energy emotionally as with some LIE females I've known. I find that energy comfy though, interestingly enough. (I type LSI-Se)
PS: this energy thingy some associate with Intuitive-ness. This is hard to explain though sorry
Normally I would agree with Sol being ridiculous with his comment, but in video chat I didn't see LIE seemed more in line with ESE or SEE
I'm definitely LIE. I was just trying to entice some good energy
Clearly everyone struggles with sarcasm here.
I will test as LIE 10/10 times. Throw me a question and I guarantee I will answer identical to an LIE. Also, I'm well aware of the differences between socionics and MBTI. Ty
It's not uncommon for people to misinterpret my excellent extroverted social skills as something other than what they are, or for people to feel a bit intimated by that. did you know? Not every NT has to be boring and calculative. People can have a sense of humor. That might come as a surprise to you since you had a flat affect. A flat affect is a common symptom of various mental illnesses. You had not a single movement in your facial expressions. This makes me think you are biased towards extroverts.
Lol it was just my impression. I think most who know me here know I don't have a flat affect, am very expressive in conversation and that I am not biased toward extroverts. Nice armchair psychology though. You seem like you try very hard to seem more knowledgeable than you actually are. I'm literally physically sick at the moment and was focused on something else as well. I don't think I'm the one with a very significant mental illness. I'm genuinely curious what led you to LIE. It was an opinion that you do not seem LIE, you insinuated quite a bit.
Keep in mind I'm here for my best friend of like 12+ years. So I'm definitely trying here for his sake and clearly failing
*Another armchair psychologist joins the thread*
Dunno, wasn't there in whatever chat this was, but if you are doing things for "emotional efficiency" to keep the vibe going then that would be a sign of Fe usage, no? Plus the way you say things such as...
...makes me believe that you are trying to twist things to control a social image, or at the very least protect one. Both of which are very Fe oriented. Many of your posts come off like you have this goal of projecting and protecting a particular image in my opinion.
But I will say that the way you are lashing out in multiple posts does indicate a not very effective usage of Se. Not gonna lie, the mental illness jab was pretty random and not really on topic from what I could tell, and I agree with thegreenfaerie that you appear to try to seem more knowledgeable than you actually are.
Just two cents from a random Socionika n00b.
Socionics is a dangerous thing for a woman like me to have, but I have it.
Mental illness jab wasn't random. It was pretty obvious what i was trying to say, and yes, i was using armchair psychology, but so is everyone here. do you understand the word facetious?
Not to mention you weren't there. I really wasn't THAT jovial. My point was greenfaerie is so miserable anything would be jovial compared to her demeanor. She says she was sick, sort of an excuse. I know people with chronic illnesses who still muster up more personality than she did. I find people like that tend to come down harshly on anyone who is happy
Basically what happened was I made a joke, playing off of the American psycho thing, and everyone got their panties in a bunch.
My laptop recently broke and I'm having difficulty maneuvering the website. I tried to condense my replies. I'm not frantically doing anything.
As for the "jabs," I thought they were funny * shrugs *
I struggle with feelings in general, this includes Fe. As time goes on you will likely see that. I definitely don't value Fe. It's very superficial.
My impression of greenfaerie also plays off of her immediate response to me in the zoom chat, which was condescending. You get what you give. Remember that. Before my camera even went on she stated in an annoyed tone, "oh you must be an extravert." Clearly she was bothered by my voice. Hahaha.
One more thing, it wasn't entirely an innocent thing she did. She didn't seem to like me from the zoom chat, came on here, and found this post, simply to challenge me.
As for people typing incorrectly, it happens a lot. I think the issue is everyone here wants to project, but no one wants to listen. I've gotten a variety of types across the board, but never have I gotten ESFP. generally people guess NT, or at minimum T. I've gotten ISTJ before from two people into socionics, who know me in person. I've also gotten ENTP. AND of course, ENTJ. I don't need your opinions; if I wanted them I would have gone into the "what's your type?" Thread/section. I know I am an ENTJ. I do however appreciate the insight and I am taking everything into account.
Also fyi I'm obviously NOT a sparkling person. Clearly this is already off to a negative start. I'm quite the opposite. That whole "excellent extroverted social skills" was an exaggeration to prove a point. I was trying to be snarky. I never said she was boring me. I said she was a boring person.
Now the next thing I was trying to convey was just like I might be wrong about her, she must consider that she could be wrong about me.
If I'm faking intelligence (as you and her claimed I was doing) why do I have to spell this out for you?
P.s. I edited a few typos. Having difficulty with the mobile version of this website
I didn’t say you must be an extrovert lol. That was someone else. I wasn’t talking at all. I didn’t find the post simply to challenge you, it was posted in new posts. I don’t speak to people in a mean way like that especially when first meeting them (making a jab at someone first joining a call isn’t me). You’re making a complete ass of yourself and you’ve already revealed in this post that you have a significant mental illness. I don’t have a personality disorder or a significant mental illness, but it seems pretty clear to me that you do. Normally I wouldn’t use that against someone, but you seem to be making such light of it and using it to attack other people.
I agree on Fe valuing the more I think about it and as this post has gone on though. Maybe you should consider EIE. Not all feelers are sensitive people. Some people use their Fe for completely selfish reasons, particularly ones with strong mental illness.
i have many happy friends who being an atmosphere that welcomes other people, and you do not do that. You also told the person who said you must be an extrovert, about 3 minutes in that you thought she was such a cool person suddenly, that person was pretty confused by the *fakeness* of it. I’m sorry, but you do come off pretty fake. I’d rather have 3 minutes of a “flat affect” than be anything like you. Keep boasting about your la k of empathy which is probably more in line with a personality disorder than “haha I’m so cool my psychiatrist thinks I have sociopathic tendencies”. I’ve seen that many times before.
I think I made an ass out of myself because the zoom names were different than the usernames on here.
I still stand by what I said, and I thought my jokes initially were funny. No one aspires to be the guy from American psycho. That's absurd. I'm surprised that was taken so literally. As well as the psychiatrist joke.
I think in general because I was confusing you with someone else, that it's going to be difficult to sift through and find the general points I was making. So because a lot of the things I was saying were in reference to someone else, I will list the general points I still stand by:
1. The flat affect was a snarky joke. As of your most recent post, you have now typed me as EIE or ENFJ. What's interesting is you still are holding onto the Feeling function. ENFJ is at least a rational type and intuitive. ESFP was just completely missing the mark. I know many ENFJs, and I find they have a warmth that I simply lack.
2. I do not have a psychiatrist, and I don't aspire to be the guy from American psycho. I was merely "playing off of" justwanderings comment. I was also trying to use an extreme example to contrast the assumptions people were making.
3. I still stand by the jokes I made about who I now know as Rynn from the zoom chat. Faerie, obviously everything I said doesn't apply to you, except the flat affect comment. Your reply about preferring to have a flat affect over my alleged fakeness was funny. Kudos. Im glad you would rather be you, than me. Funny enough, I'd rather be me, than you. At least we can both agree on that
I didn’t say you must be an extrovert lol. That was someone else. I wasn’t talking at all. I didn’t find the post simply to challenge you, it was posted in new posts. I don’t speak to people in a mean way like that especially when first meeting them. You’re making a complete ass of yourself and you’ve already revealed in this post that you have a significant mental illness. I don’t have a personality disorder or a significant mental illness, but it seems pretty clear to me that you do. Normally I wouldn’t use that against someone, but you seem to be making such light of it and using it to attack other people.
I agree on Fe valuing the more I think about it and as this post has gone on though. Maybe you should consider EIE. Not all feelers are sensitive people. Some people use their Fe for completely selfish reasons, particularly ones with strong mental illness.
I'm not angry I've been pretty much making jokes the entire time. Im not triggered. That's such an easy word to throw around. Hey if no one's laughing, is it still funny? I'd like to think that someone out there got the humor. I think one person picked up on it.
I'm not trying to "seem" more knowledgeable. Knowing who I am isn't trying to be knowledgeable.
Everything about this is Fe. I had another post written out from my phone, but seems it didn’t post. I will keep this one shorter. It seems like you’re aware of being manipulative and quite proud of it. It also seems like you are lying. You seemed honest about having a psychiatrist who told you that and now you are saying that was false. I call bullshit. One or the other is an outright lie as opposed to just a joke.
I don’t need them. You sound like you may have a personality disorder, but it’s not ASPD. They are often more covert. You seem very proud of your manipulation and lack of empathy. It also sounds like you probably rationalize all of your issues, replaced with things like, “I’m just happy and you’re just bitter” which reeks of narcissism. It sounds like you make others out to be the ones with problems or who just don’t get you/are envious of you rather than acknowledge that you are part of the problem. I still have yet to see a logical argument behind LIE either. A test and your friends who you “dominate” agreeing I don’t think cuts it.