How long does it take for duals to click

[lynn]

Lol that’s true lol. I guess there’s a balance and there’s a difference in what I’m looking for in long term vs short term. My preferences are fairly similar to men’s with women in terms of that. I guess what I’m saying is that soyboy low libido and hot pure basically overlap a lot of the time, and it’s hard to find the right balance, which also depends on my situation.

Basically over a long short term, more of a prude is better.

Over a super short term, a complete sloot hot virgin is best. Over super long term, a freaky, thirsty hoe with a good sense of push/pull is better.

So, you choose the virgin who won't have sex before marriage for a one-night stand, and the guy who will jump into bed with you at first sight for marriage. Oh wait, he has to be still challenge and not give in so easily, right? It still sounds like your setting yourself up intentionally for some very paradoxical situations, lol.

[Ryan]

Lol that’s true lol. I guess there’s a balance and there’s a difference in what I’m looking for in long term vs short term. My preferences are fairly similar to men’s with women in terms of that. I guess what I’m saying is that soyboy low libido and hot pure basically overlap a lot of the time, and it’s hard to find the right balance, which also depends on my situation.

Basically over a long short term, more of a prude is better.

Over a super short term, a complete sloot hot virgin is best. Over super long term, a freaky, thirsty hoe with a good sense of push/pull is better.

So, you choose the virgin who won't have sex before marriage for a one-night stand, and the guy who will jump into bed with you at first sight for marriage. Oh wait, he has to be still challenge and not give in so easily, right? It still sounds like your setting yourself up intentionally for some very paradoxical situations, lol.

Lol.

The biggest difference between polr and suggestive, is that the suggestive balances your dual's lead function, it doesn't surrender or disregard it entirely. The base function does not allow anyone to compete with it, especially by "childlike" Super-Id suggestive function. SLEs want someone who is not easy, but you also have to be willing to play (or be conquered), otherwise it's a waste of time.

[sbbds]

Lol.

The biggest difference between polr and suggestive, is that the suggestive balances your dual's lead function, it doesn't surrender or disregard it entirely. The base function does not allow anyone to compete with it, especially by "childlike" Super-Id suggestive function. SLEs want someone who is not easy, but you also have to be willing to play (or be conquered), otherwise it's a waste of time.

Yes that’s exactly what I mean @lynn . I don’t prefer a 100% easy hoe, but eventually they should smash or gtfo as they’d just be wasting my time otherwise, and that patience of mine and how my interest is maintained varies depending on the circumstances.

[sbbds]

So, you choose the virgin who won't have sex before marriage for a one-night stand, and the guy who will jump into bed with you at first sight for marriage. Oh wait, he has to be still challenge and not give in so easily, right? It still sounds like your setting yourself up intentionally for some very paradoxical situations, lol.

No lol the virgin who will have sex. And then the marriage guy should be a bit less of a total ho.

Well yeah IEI guys are paradoxical.