Quote Originally Posted by April
Quote Originally Posted by UDP
The difference is, INFjs will not generally say no if they are asked to go - they don't enjoy saying 'no, that's not what I want to do"
False, at least for me. I would never go to a club, unless it was to see a band that I really like. As for saying, "No, that's not what I want to do," that's what I tell people when they ask me to be more social than I want to be. But you're right in that I don't like saying it; it's just false that I won't say it.
I don't see any incentive in going to clubs, but I agree that I don't like to say "no". Since the people around me go to clubs, I don't like to let them misunderstood and think that I'm been anti-social and not interested in hanging out and having fun with them, especially the ESTps.