My other ISFJ grandmother never did that. Thats' why my ESFJ grandmother lived 85 years while the ISFJ grandmother lived 60 years. But the ISFJs' children all grew up to be accomplished individuals in their chosen fields of activity. Whereas the children of the ESFJ were so repressed that not a signle one of them did what they wanted to do in life and so are bitter abusive adults.Originally Posted by Slacker Mom