Quote Originally Posted by Slacker Mom
See here's the problem

This should read:

Why would a mother tell her daughter all her life that it is her fault that her father died when the daughter was not even born at the time of the death?
Because that is not type related. That is just emotionally abusive parenting. Any type can do that.
My other ISFJ grandmother never did that. Thats' why my ESFJ grandmother lived 85 years while the ISFJ grandmother lived 60 years. But the ISFJs' children all grew up to be accomplished individuals in their chosen fields of activity. Whereas the children of the ESFJ were so repressed that not a signle one of them did what they wanted to do in life and so are bitter abusive adults.